I get a casual reply, what should I do?

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The answer is simple.

"Let's give you a casual reply too" is my answer.

This problem is also, I don't know why that person responds casually, so until I know the reason, it's better to treat him with the same attitude as the other person for the time being.

In other words, I don't care about myself and treat you with a casual reply.

If you do this, first of all, your relationship with the other person will not get worse.

After that, all you have to do is wait for the timing when your relationship with the other person improves.

For example, even though the other person is not careful, I'm strangely careful, cheerful and funny, or irritated, "Why do you have such an attitude?" Even if you say something like that, complain, or say, "I'm sad when you take such an attitude," and pretend to be a victim, there is a temperature difference in emotions with the other person, so it just irritates the other person.

So, first of all, it's better not to make the temperature difference strange.

Because, for example, what would you do if the consultant himself was the cause of the person's casual attitude?

What do you think of the person who is creating the cause, if you are hit by saying, "I'm sad", or if you were cheerful, or irritated, what do you think of that person?

I'm sure, "Huh! It's your fault!" What do you think?

"The cause is you!" What?

So, in such a case, I recommend that you change your attitude according to the other person's attitude for the time being until you understand the reason.

If you adjust to the other person's attitude, first of all, there will be no strange friction.

If you are sad, I will be sad too.

If the other person gets angry, I'll get angry too.

If the other party is cheerful and fright, I will also treat you brightly.

In that way, by tuning in with the other person, you will have a sense of camaraderie.

The consultant may have his own pride, but if you really want to cure that person's casual attitude, the consultant himself needs to give up one step.

It's like sacrificing my pride.

Instead, I get to get the other person to stop his careless attitude.

It's like that.

Because the consultant himself wants to do something about this person right now, there will be friction there, so first of all, for the time being, don't think about doing something about it, it's better to wait for the time to come. That's good.

Because not everyone can change others.

It's better to wait for the other person to change naturally.

However, if it still doesn't change, it may be better to give up at the place where "I'm already at my limit".

In other words, you can either give up repairing the relationship or give up on changing the other person's careless attitude.

If it's the same situation after half a year, it might be better to reconsider.

Maybe he's trying to trap the consultant.

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