241122 叱るに詰む、SASB

人を叱るって
本当に疲れます

精神的・カロリー的
に疲れる事も然る事ながら

叱っている内容が
果たして本当に
叱られている人の
為にナって今後

叱られている人の
役に立っていく内容なのか
という根源的な問いに対する
悩みというか疲れというか

全くの無駄に終わる
そんな可能性も
有る訳じゃないですか

それを
此方のカロリーと
テンションと時間と食欲
その他の意欲に何なら
何かを拾得スる機会

そういうモノを
持ち出しシて
相手を叱るのって

本当に正しいんでしょうか

叱りたく無いんですよ
イヤな空気にナるじゃないですか
しかも叱る役なんて
シたく無いんですよ

メチャクチャ疲れるし
気を付けなきゃイケないし
逆ギレに対応シて
半身で構えないとイケないし
何なら恨まれるだけだし

しかも
此方が提示スる価値観が
潰えるモノなら
叱られている人にとっても
全くの無駄にナりうる訳です

この損失は
精神的にも物理的にも
計り知れないと感じるのです

241122 Choked on scolding, SASB.

Scolding people
It is really tiring

Not only is it mentally and calorically exhausting

I wonder if the content of my scolding is really for the benefit of the person being scolded, and if it will be for the future of the person being scolded.

I wonder if the content of the scolding
Is it really for the benefit of the person being scolded, and will it be useful in the future?
or is it just exhaustion?

It may end up being a complete waste of time.
There is such a possibility, isn't there?

And that's what I'm talking about
If you have the calories, the tension, the time, the appetite
and time, and appetite, and the opportunity to pick up something, if anything

You can't just take something like that out of the equation
Is it really right to scold the other person

Is it really right?

I don't want to scold them.
It makes me feel uncomfortable.
And I don't want to play the role of scolding.
I don't want to do it.

It's very tiring.
I have to be careful.
And I have to be ready to take the heat.
I have to be on my toes.
And if you want, they'll hate you.

And what's more
If the value we offer is something that can be destroyed
For the person who is being scolded
It can be a total waste of time and money

This loss is
both mentally and physically
I feel that this loss is immeasurable

by DeepL