The darkness of the heart of people who do it even if they are told not to do it.

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Well, today I will talk about "the darkness of the heart of people who do it even if they are told not to do it".

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who says, "You can't do that," but you do it no matter what.

For example, "It's not break time now, so you can't smoke," "I'm at work now, so please refrain from talking privately," or "Show me important documents first and then finish them." Well, there are various kinds of people at that workplace, the same person.

From the person who is careful, "I'm saying that every time, so please understand!" To be honest, I get angry too.

But the person in question repeats the same thing every time with a gesture that he hasn't heard at all.

"Is this person sick by any chance?" Some people are so stubborn that they doubt it.

Well, this time, I will talk about the darkness of the heart of such a stubborn person, but before that, I would like to ask those who are suffering from the same problem.

Has anyone ever heard why they make the same mistake even though they are paying attention to that person many times?

It may be surprising, but there are a lot of people who can't hear this unexpectedly.

But please think carefully.

What would you think if you were instructed to do various things just for your own convenience without asking the other person's reason?

"No, I have something to say too!" It creates a repulsive feeling, "On the contrary, I won't listen to what you say!" It will escalate further, and eventually it will take the exact opposite action.

So, as a way to deal with it, first of all, why did you act like that to the other party? Please start by listening properly.

Then, in fact, there was a reason why it was difficult to be at work, and I may have a strong desire to leave the place, and in fact, I was not feeling well, but I was working hard, and there were various things that people had, and I could see the circumstances that I couldn't say outside. I'm coming.

So, as a way to deal with such people, the first thing to do is to think together about why they take such actions.

So in the flow of the story, I talked about how to deal with it first, but I will return to the story of the darkness of my heart.

Well, then why do you take the same action over and over again?

It came out a little while ago, but first of all, it can be thought of words and actions that come from the repulsion.

This is a phenomenon that occurs when the person who points out does not think about the other person's feelings and does not think about the other person's feelings.

That's also the rebelliousness that boys and girls who are called so-called delinquents often show.

There is a good reason why you can't fix it no matter how many times you are warned.

If you just give instructions without asking the reason, even if you are a boss or a senior, your emotions will prevail and you will come.

That's why I don't listen to what I say no matter how many times I'm told.

I'm going to make it complicated like this.

Other than that, it is a little different from the darkness of the heart, but it tends to be for people who are still immature in self-control.

The representative person is a child.

Children are still inexperienced in self-control, so even if they say not to do it, they will do it repeatedly.

So I will repeatedly learn the loop of getting angry, learning, and not doing it.

In other words, even if you ask the reason, the type of person who says "not really" or "especially" may be this type of person.

It is a state of mind common to people who grew up without much attention from the beginning of starting work.

The body is an adult, but the mind is like a child.

For this type of person, it is necessary to teach things that should not be done from scratch.

Don't give up and do it again and again.

It's until you learn what you shouldn't do, but you also need a trick on how to pay attention to it.

If you leave it to the momentum and pay attention to the dark clouds, you will only get a repulsive spirit back, so I will tell you well so as not to have a repulsive spirit, but if you write that technique, to be honest, you won't be able to enter due to the number of characters, so today is around here. I'll leave it.

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