It looks like you're being careful, but it's actually a sweet trap that people who care about you fall into.

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Today, I'm going to talk about "a sweet trap that people who seem to care about but actually care fall into."

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Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you? Such a person.

I think, "Oh, this person is paying attention to me," but it's about a person who uses too much and on the contrary, I care about it.

Don't you feel like this person is losing a little?

That's right, you're losing as much as you can, aren't you?

Because you care about people, but you've done too much and you're getting revenge.

What a waste.

For example, let's say there is an elderly person carrying heavy things.

Suppose a person sees it and says, "I'll help you," and holds that heavy luggage instead.

But what do you do if you actually have something important in it and you don't want anyone to touch it?

Of course, that good will is also taken by malice, and you may think, "Don't do anything unnecessary."

In such a case, there is a phenomenon that people who are careful are actually making people care.

If you keep repeating this without noticing it, you will surely be disliked, right?

It is annoying, isn't it?

As a result, you can avoid it, right?

People who meet once in a lifetime may still be good, but in the workplace, school, family, friend groups, etc., as long as you belong, you will always see each other, so of course it will be easier to have such feelings.

So what should I do so that this doesn't happen? In other words, you just need to be careful only when the other person wants it.

If you take care of it and the other person looks suspicious, it's a bad thing for the other person, so I won't care about it any more.

On the other hand, if you take care of it and make a happy face, I will be willing to take care of it.

If you treat them like this, I'm sure you'll have a good human relationship for both of you, and you'll be able to go in a good direction synergistically.

So how was today's story?

In the end, if you use it incorrectly, it will ruin your relationships.

Therefore, I recommend that you use your mind properly.

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