There are times when you lose money if you talk efficiently.

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Don't you listen to people efficiently when you listen to them?

For example, if you only listen to what you want to hear, you won't listen to the story at all after that, or you'll cut off the conversation on the way, or you'll stop talking even though the other person hasn't talked enough yet, or in the end, you can only proceed with the conversation on your own way. Isn't there something you don't have?

Maybe it can't be helped when you're busy.

I don't have much time, but I want to talk to you properly, and I have a lot of things to ask, and as soon as I finish my business, I'll go to another place.

Well, give up a hundred steps, and in this case, let's say it can't be helped.

However, even at times like this, you stop people and talk about them, so it's better to keep your time properly, so you can have a good feeling.

In the first place, I mentioned it a little while ago, but in order to talk, I went out of my way to stop that person.

Even though I'm stopping you from here, isn't it terrible to say, "I only heard what I want to hear" or "I told you what I wanted to say" and leave the place?

"Eh! I haven't been able to say what I want to say yet?" Isn't that right?

It will be, right?

"What, talk to me from there, I don't care about this story!" Isn't it?

It will be, right?

I think this is a violation of manners as a way of talking and how to talk.

After all, when people start talking, they want to say everything they want to say.

In the first place, people are creatures who want to talk rather than listen.

So, if you suddenly round up just because you started talking about something you didn't intend to do, it can't be helped if the other person gets angry.

No matter how much the other person is the boss of the company, because he is a superior, or because he is a senior or an elderly person, if you do this, you will destroy human relations.

"That person is a person who doesn't listen to me properly!" Well, I'm going to be certified, so even if you come only when it's convenient for you, you won't be able to talk to me properly from the next time, so if you have an idea, it's better to stop it right now.

If there is anyone who wants to break a relationship, want to break it, or want to leave this person, let's actively talk efficiently.

Let's cut it even on the way.

Thoroughly say what you want to hear and what you want to say, stop talking about the other person in the middle, and leave the place.

I think the other party will be frustrated, frustrated, and feel bad, so I think you will lose your relationship with that person as you want.

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