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80% of the amount of information is enough to complete a chat.

hello everyone.

Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today I will explain about "80% of the information is enough to complete a chat".

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Now let's get down to business.

Well everyone.

Are you good at small talk?

Or are you not good at it?

Probably, but I think there are a certain number of people who are not good at it.

Today, I would like to tell you how to make people who are not good at chatting a little better.

First of all, I think that there are people who are having trouble with the topic when chatting, but the topic can be anything.

It's not about the weather, the news that happened today, or recent events.

Ultimately, the purpose of chatting is to let the other person know who you are, and to make them think, "Ah, this person is easy to talk to."

So anything is fine as long as the topic is in common with each other.

However, the important thing is that if you talk about fun topics in a fun way, and sad topics in a sad way, that's all it takes.

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No problem.

Most people are pulled by the emotions they talk about, and they match the story while taking the same reaction.

It's OK if the content matches.

For example, if you want to have a chat about the news that was playing, you will try to remember the content.

Those who are not good at chatting here can not speak unless they recall the contents almost perfectly.

We tend to think that it's rude or embarrassing to tell someone we made a mistake, but this is actually a big assumption.

Even if the content I conveyed is slightly wrong, or if I forget about 20% of the content and the content skips, the other party doesn't care at all.

Rather, if you have a common topic, the other person will correct your mistakes and supplement the missing parts.

So don't worry about it and just talk to me.

Rather, if you're talking with two or three people, it's fine if everyone is in the mood to complete one conversation.

It's not like I'm the only one who talks and completes a chat, but it's like putting together parts of the content and completing a single puzzle.

If you can establish a conversation by yourself, it's not a conversation, it's a solo performance.

If you think about it like this, wouldn't it make chatting a little easier?

So, why don't you start chatting based on this idea from today?

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