I don't think there are people who don't like it, but I think there are people who don't like it.
Have you ever felt it?
I thought, "I don't like that person."
What's more, are you worried about that?
Good news for such people today.
There is a perfect solution, so
I will introduce it today.
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Then it is the main subject.
First of all, the point of thinking is
Is there really a person who is a "disgusting person"?
I think from the place.
I feel like I'm being told, "No, you're right in front of me!"
The person in front of you
Are you really a disgusting person?
Please think twice.
Even such a person has a family,
I have friends
Some people may be dating.
in short,
There are people who need that person.
What does that mean?
For those who need that person
That person is "not a disgusting person".
Then it's inconsistent with what I said earlier, right?
From your point of view, that person is a "disgusting person",
but
From the point of view of the person who needs that person
"I'm not a bad person"
What does this mean?
in the end,
The one who thinks that person is "disliked"
It is to say that you are yourself.
In other words
It means that you are creating a person you dislike.
Did you understand?
in the end,
In this world
There is no one who says "disgusting person"
It means "I have myself who thinks there are people I don't like".
That is
What makes a bad person
It's all about me.
That means
If you change your feelings to those who don't dislike it,
It means that you don't hate that person.
You can see how to deal with it.
So today's conclusion.
How to deal with unpleasant people
It means "finding only the good points of that person".
From here
Use the halo effect in psychology.
What is the halo effect?
When a certain characteristic point catches your eye
All other impressions are psychological phenomena that are pulled by their characteristics.
for example,
If you have a good face, you have a good personality, you are smart, you can do sports
It's a belief.
The rest is easy.
Use this effect to find the good points of those who dislike it.
If you are observing properly
There is always one.
Because there are people who are also needed by that person.
If you find one
After that, you can see them one after another in a string of beads.
Then mysteriously,
By the time you notice
I'm no longer a disgusting person.
I thought I was deceived
Just practice.
All right.
If you keep silent and do it only within yourself
It's a work that no one knows.
Please work with confidence.
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