The way you don't know who you're talking to is going to invite you to be complicated.

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Today, I'm going to talk about "The way of speaking that I don't know who I'm talking to will invite you to."

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Well, everyone.

Aren't you around? Such a person.

That's because I'm talking in a low voice that sounds faintly, but are you really talking to me, or are you talking to yourself, but no matter how you think about it, you've been talking to me now, right? It's about people who talk on a subtle line like that.

It's better to reply to this now, right? But if it's different, it's embarrassing, and on the other hand, if you're saying it to me, I'm sorry if you don't reply ... and no matter which one you choose, you're a person who only gives yourself negative.

That means.

If you only give negatives to people, it means people who are disgusted by everyone and don't want to get involved, people who don't want to get close to them, and people who don't want to get involved.

That means, of course, the destination is Bocchi.

Moreover, it's a botch that I don't want to get involved with, so it's quite complicated.

It's quite hard in the organization, and it's hard to work well, so if you don't want to be like this, you want to be careful.

You should talk to the other person in a loud voice, call your name and start talking, stand right next to you and talk, or you should be aware of it for the time being. I think.

In psychology, there is a psychological effect called cocktail party effect.

This is a psychological effect that says that the information you think is necessary for you will naturally come into your ears.

"That's natural!" It seems like you're going to say that, but please think about it carefully and look around.

You don't always have all the information you need, do you?

People have five senses and recognize the information around them.

As for the surrounding information, this is spreading countless times, isn't it?

For example, the sound and appearance of cars running, the appearance of people coming and going and talking, birds flying, the sun shining in the sky, the temperature is hot, the wind is comfortable, the smell of making curry somewhere, we are always living in various information like this Masu.

Among this countless information, the work of sorting only the information you need now and incorporating it well, this is the cocktail party effect.

That means that if you make good use of this effect, you can convey a more accurate message to the other person.

Then, what should we do? That is to say, if you process it into information related to the other party and say it out loud, it will naturally reach the person's ears.

Among the information related to the other party, the quickest thing is to call the other person's name after all.

So, the most reliable way is to start talking after reading the other person's name, right?

So, like this every day, I talk about how to communicate with people, how to talk, and how to solve human relationship problems and problems.

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