The conversation technique of a really smart person.
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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog about "the conversation skills of really smart people".
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Let's get down to business.
Are really smart people who can study? A person who is familiar with trivia? A person with a good memory?
Certainly, if you have a lot of knowledge, there will be a lot of things you know, so you can define it as a smart person.
(In addition to this, people who have a good head are also classified as smart.) It's a story about "There are two types of smart people" that I mentioned on my blog before, but I was pointed out that "No, there are more," so if you try to deepen it a little more, it's unexpected. In addition to the analogy I gave you today, "I'm smart", "I'm tactful", "I'm strong in puzzles", "I'm good at writing", "I'm surprised ideas come out", etc.)
But I think people who are really smart people say things like this.
"A person who uses words tailored to the person's level to tell things to the other person"
It is a Japanese where four-character idioms, idioms, and foreign words are rampant, and if a word that can summarize what you want to convey comes out, it will look intelligent.
(This seems to have been established as a proper method.) Especially in the business scene, let's get dressed up, let's just have a posture, let's make what you have, let's make it a first-class product, in addition to that, how to speak and the choice of words to use, how to use to make it look more intelligent, I also teach you if you look elegant. But I'm rather my job of communicating, so I try to use words that can be conveyed properly. When you use difficult words or technical terms, it's about when you try to gain the other person's trust, or when you pull out the necessary information from the other person.)
Moreover, if you have a word that can express what you were trying to convey in a word or two, it would be easy to have a conversation.
I also end up using it.
But if the other party doesn't understand, there's no point in using it, so in the end, I often chew it from scratch and explain it...
(I wrote something cool above, but sometimes I make a mistake. When I think I think I know this much, and when I use it, I don't know it unexpectedly, and sometimes I wonder if it didn't sound disgusting.)
If that's the case, I thought it would be better to use the words that I chewed from the beginning to tell the other person.
However, it's a little difficult to find out to what extent the other person knows the language.
If you chew too much, the other party will say, "That means 〇〇, isn't it?" Sometimes I'm asked back.
I'm not making fun of you, but it can't be helped if you think so!?︎
(This pattern is still in place.) You can also get a reply like "I know that" because it's too chewed. But I don't really care, so it doesn't have much mental impact. So if you want to know about the mental control method that can be used in this case, please register as a friend from my official LINE and we are waiting for your questions. I'll put the LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog.)
In other words, I think that a really smart person is a person who can think like this quickly, as a result of thinking through thinking in his head, and eventually going around once and talking back to the words he chewed down again.
So, how was this story today?
The words are profound, and I'm still studying.
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