Pitfalls on how to solve human relationship problems [Let people who can consult listen to you]
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It is said that there are pitfalls in the way to solve the problems of relationships.
In the first place, I've been talking about the story that everything has a front and a back on my blog for a long time, but in this series, it is generally said that "how to solve the problems of human relationships" actually has a pitfall. That's what I'm talking about.
"What is a pitfall?" That's what I mean, but to put it simply, it's a disadvantage.
"Are there any disadvantages even though it's a way to deal with it?" I'm talking about it, but I told you before, didn't I?
Everything has a front and a back.
So pay attention to the back side, that is, the disadvantages, and say, "If you don't be careful here, it will be ridiculous!" I'm going to talk about that, I'm going to talk about a little tame.
So, sometimes it may become radical, but please take care of it.
So let's get to the point of today.
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Now, let's get to the point.
First of all, I would like to ask everyone.
Have you ever heard that there is a way to solve human relationship problems and "have someone you can talk to listen to you"?
I don't know who is raising their hands because it's a blog, but about 20% to 50% of people say they've heard of it.
So today, I'm going to talk about the behind-the-scenes of the method of "have someone you can talk to listen to you".
I repeat, don't you listen well?
One of the ways to solve human relationship problems is to "have someone you can talk to listen to you".
Wouldn't it come up when you search on the Internet at least once?
This is certainly true in itself.
So, basically, I don't deny it.
Rather, I want you to actively adopt it.
However, there is only one point that you should pay attention to when practicing this method of "have someone you can talk to listen to you".
That's what it means, "If you overdo it, you will depend on the other person."
Because, first of all, people have the nature of relying on others unexpectedly quickly.
Because it's easier and more reassuring.
If you rely on people, they will answer immediately, and you can feel at ease when you are together, right?
When something is in trouble, if you ask that person for help every time, there is a high probability that they will help you, right?
That's why people tend to prefer to be with others.
Therefore, we will proceed with the premise that there is such a nature.
What's more, what happens if you repeatedly ask someone you can consult to listen to you after having that nature?
Isn't this quite easy to imagine?
That's right, without that person, you will be ruined, you will fall in love with that person, you will trust him too much, and your dependence on that person will increase more and more.
It's like a small child can't leave his mother.
Have you all experienced this as well?
Please remember your childhood.
People who say to their mothers, "Well, I've been relying on them even after I'm old."
There is, right?
So, no matter how long it takes, your mother is your mother.
So there are some parts that can't be helped, but I'm not particularly blaming the thing itself, it's a good thing to admire your mother.
Rather, it is necessary to build a proper relationship with those around you, so you have to get along with your parents.
But what you shouldn't overdo is that you depend on it.
It means that parents should not be able to shake off those who rely on everything they can do, even if they can do everything, and rely on others more than before.
Things you can understand and can do if you think about it a little, and now there is also the Internet, so you should first find a solution yourself without relying on others to find out what comes out if you do a simple research.
It is a good way to deal with it to consult with people and ask them to listen to their problems and get advice, but if you overdo it, you will become addicted to others, so if you focus on drawing a line in the right place, you will be even better. It's done, isn't it?
I don't rely on others and I'm moderately self-reliant.
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