The timing of getting a story from the other party is better if you leave it to the other party.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the timing of getting a story from the other party is better if you leave it to the other party", but before that, I would like to ask you.

Today's story, "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

So, first of all, I'd like to ask everyone.

For example, "What happened to that matter?" Is there anything you're worried about?

"Somehow, she was very worried about that matter, but what happened?" And so on.

Well, I think there are various things, such as work and private life, but I'm curious, but I just can't ask, it's hard to hear, when will it be intentional? Don't you have anything to think about?

Or, when you want to get the trust of the other party, there is actually a way to get trust by using this "timing to listen to the story" well.

So today, I will introduce a recommended method for those who have such needs.

Well, let's start with the conclusion.

That's to say, "I'll wait until the other person says it."

But please note that this works in a negative direction under certain conditions.

That is to say, if you wait until the other party says it, you have to assume that it will take a long time.

So, if you are asked about the time about the content you are interested in, ask the person immediately, "What happened to that matter?" Please ask me.

What I'm going to explain is how to use it when you have time.

But if you do this, your confidence in you will really explode, so I recommend it.

It may not be suitable for people who are short-tempered.

Well, this time, then why is it the best time to wait until the other person tells you?

Or does it lead to trust? I will explain about.

The first thing I want you to think about here is the act of "I'll tell you from the other party."

In psychology, this is an act of "doing 〇〇 from yourself", so basically everything means autonomy.

For example, anything is fine, but when you go shopping, go to the toilet, and when you ride a bicycle, when you go on your own, you are doing the act itself because you need it, right?

In other words, because I want the act itself, I move it into that action.

That means that my desire is coming out here.

"I want this person to listen to this story!" That's why the desire is coming out.

Normally, you can understand even if you think about it, right?

You don't have anything to say to people you don't want to talk about, do you?

But "I want this person to listen to this story!", "If it's this person, can I tell this story?" If you think that, at that point, you can already open your heart to the other person.

People are driven by the psychology of trying to satisfy their desires when they have a desire.

So, the act of talking to the other person itself is a psychology that tries to satisfy the other person's desire.

There aren't many people who hate the person who satisfies their needs from the beginning, right?

So, when you talk to me, you just need to listen to the story, "Yeah, yeah."

The reason why it is better to leave the timing of listening to the story to the other party is that it will add various things if you use this way of thinking using this autonomy.

Finally, there is one more thing to be aware of.

Wait, wait, I don't feel like the other person is talking to me at all.

What are you going to do at a time like this? There seems to be a question, but in such a case, a different problem is working between the two.

So, at times like this, another approach is required, so I will answer about that method on my official LINE.

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That's why I blog about people's psychology, how to get good communication, how to get along well with people, etc. like this every day.

If you are interested in this, please also visit my past blog.

Finally, today's story, "It was good!" If that's the way, please introduce it to your friends.

See you later✌️