嫌な言葉を【半分で】聞く技術、身につけてみた♥
皆さん、こんばんは。
タイトル通りの内容なんですが、
（The English translation is at the bottom）
日常でも職場でも、嫌いというか、なんだか気が合わないというか、好きではない人、少なからずいますよね。
そんなこんなで、根っこで言うと、防衛本能。好きではない人とはできるだけ関わらず、ストレスを少なくして、違ういいことにエネルギー持っていこうと思う今日このごろ。
それでいいと思う。
まずは自分を大事に。自分をフル充電してから余分を周りのフォロワーに還元で良いと思う♥
周りから充電しようとするから辛いのよ。
わかるわー。
からして、だけどもだけど、
正直、苦手な人は苦手だし、ネガティブワードずーっと言ってくる人はエネルギー取られるからできるだけ離れたい。
そんなときに最近習得した技大公開（大げさ）！
苦手な人の言葉は、【半分で】聞く。
これは、やってみたけど、かなりナイスですよ。
だって、半分しか聞かないんだから。
今まで一所懸命真面目に聞きすぎてたのに気付いてなかった（笑）
根が真面目だから。
半分しか聞く必要なかったのよ。
なぜかと言うと、ネガティブだから。
エネルギーもってかれるから。
それに気づかなかったんだよねー。
相手に合わせすぎて。
明日から、いや、今この瞬間から、
苦手な人の言葉は、聞くのは【半分で】良し。まじで。
自分をもっと大事にしてあげて、
【私はどうしたいか】にフォーカスすると、
より良くなると思います。
参考までにどうぞ♥
あなたの人生がより良くなりますように♥☺
Good evening everyone.
Is it as the title says?
In everyday life and at work, there are quite a few people that you dislike, or that you just don't get along with, or that you don't like.
So, at the root of it all, it's a defense instinct. These days, I try to avoid people I don't like as much as possible, reduce stress, and use my energy for something good.
I think that's fine.
Take care of yourself first. I think it's fine to fully recharge yourself and then give the excess back to your followers♥
It's hard because you try to recharge yourself from the people around you.
I understand.
So, but, but,
to be honest, I don't like people I don't like, and people who keep saying negative words take up my energy, so I want to stay away from them as much as possible.
I'm going to reveal a technique I recently learned for times like that (a little dramatic)!
Listen only half-heartedly to what people you don't like say.
I've tried this, and it's pretty cool.
Because you only listen half-heartedly.
I had been listening too hard and too seriously up until now, and I didn't realize it (lol).
Because I'm a serious person at heart.
I only needed to listen half way.
The reason is, I'm negative.
Because it takes away my energy.
I didn't realize that.
I was trying to match the other person too much.
From tomorrow, no, from this very moment,
it's okay to only listen half way to what people you don't like say. Seriously.
I think things will get better if you take better care of yourself and focus on what you want to do.
Please take this as a reference♥
I hope your life gets better.