本の要約 2 (english)
Make it easy
As far as making habits easy, there are a variety of things you can do, but the simplest one is just to scale your habits down to something that is very easy to do.
I like to recommend the 2 minutes rule, which says you take whatever habit you’re trying to build and you scale it down to something that takes 2 minutes or less to do.
So do Yoga 4 days a week becomes take out my Yoga mat. Or read 30 books year becomes read 1 page. And sometimes people resist that a little bit because they’re like “okay, I know the real thing I want to do isn’t take my yoga mat out, right?” “I know I actually want to do the workout.”
“like, I’m not just looking to build this habit of taking this mat out all the time.”
“So if it’s a mental trick, and I know it’s a trick, like why would I fall for it?”
And if you feel that way, then my recommendation would be: well, actually in the beginning, for the first few weeks, limit yourself to only 2 minutes.
All you do is put your shoes on, running shoes on, and step out the door, and lock the door, and then you walk back inside.
Or all you do is take your yoga mat out. It’s sounds funny. Like for example, so I had a reader who ended up doing this. He lost a lot of weight, lost over 100 pounds.
And for the first 6 weeks, he only went to the gym for like 5 minutes and he would leave.
So he’d get in the car, drive to the gym, get out, do half an exercise, get back in the car, drive home.
And it sounds ridiculous, right?
You’re like “Clearly, this is not going to be the thing that gets this guy in shape.”
But when you step back for a second, you realize he was becoming the type of person that went to the gym 4 days a week.
He was mastering the art of showing up.
And I think that this is like a really deep truth about habits that gets overlooked a lot, which is a habit must be established before it can be improved, right?
It has to become the standard in your life, your new normal, before you can worry about optimizing it or expanding it from there.
If you don’t become the type of person that goes to the gym for the 5 minutes, you don’t have a chance to be the person who stays for 45 minutes 5 days a week.
So I think so often we’re so focused on finding the perfect diet plan, the ideal workout program.
We’re so focused on optimizing. That we don’t give ourselves permission to show up in a small way.
But even if it’s only for, you know, 5 minutes, or 5 push-ups, or 1sentence that you write.
Do something so that you can master the art of showing up. And make it your normal, and then once you become that person, well, then you have a lot of options for expanding and improving from there.
僕も何か続けてやるのが難しい時は、2分ルールを使っています!
2分だけなら、大抵のことは、毎日続けられます!
まずは、何事もやってみることが一番ですね!