相性の合わない嫌なひと

相性の合わない嫌なひとの幸せを願うと
嫌なひとは頭の中からいなくなります。
If you wish happiness upon someone you don't get along with, that person will disappear from your mind.

正直、相性の悪いひとや、嫌なひとのことなんて思うだけで嫌です。
実は、友達とか会社の上司や、先輩や後輩などは以外に距離がとりやすいし
その場をやりすごせます。
ちょっと、やばいのは、肉親、兄弟、親戚です。骨肉の争い(血縁関係にある親戚や家族間で争うこと）と呼ばれるように相続が発端になることもあるようで、相続＝争族(そうぞく)と呼ばれることもあるようです。
実は、自分も他界した父からの相続のことで、兄妹で少しもめまして、お互いが話し合える状況にあったのでごたごたにはなりませんでしたが、話し合いが難航すると怒りモードに突入し、戦闘モードに移行していきましたが、親戚の不幸や知人の逝去、何気に残された兄妹、親戚、生きている間は幸せであってほしいと願うと、不思議と怒りモードや嫌悪モードが頭の中から
消え去っていました。

Honestly, just thinking about people I don't get along with or dislike makes me feel bad.
Actually, it's surprisingly easy to distance yourself from friends, superiors at work, seniors, and juniors, and you can get through the situation.

It's a little dangerous with blood relatives, siblings, and relatives. It seems that inheritance can be the starting point, as it is called a family feud (a fight between blood relatives or family members), and inheritance is sometimes called a family feud.

Actually, I also had a little fight with my siblings about an inheritance from my father who passed away, and since we were in a situation where we could talk to each other, it didn't become a big deal, but when the discussion got difficult, I went into anger mode and switched to fighting mode, but when I thought about the misfortune of a relative, the death of an acquaintance, or the siblings and relatives I was left behind, and wished them happiness while they were still alive, the anger mode and dislike mode mysteriously disappeared from my mind.