People who are persistent are hated
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Weren't you surprised to hear today's theme?
Because, "How obvious it is!" Aren't there a lot of people who are surprised?
But why I decided to do this theme today is that there are quite a lot of people in the world who are not aware of this.
I'm sure there are quite a few people who don't like it if they are not aware of it.
But if you do it to someone else, to the extreme, it's a serious symptom that makes you think it's a disease.
So today's goal is to cure it.
Well, I have a feeling now, but I'll explain the reason.
Then why, "Do people hate persistent people?" It's about.
That's because it's troublesome.
People basically have a tendency to hate troublesome things.
So, troublesome people are hated, but in the first place, a persistent person is a person who says the same thing over and over again, or a person who takes the same action over and over again, right?
I think it's more common to say it regularly, not once every few months, every hour, every time the other person takes a certain action.
For example, before you go out, always say, "Did you forget anything?" He asked, "Did you bring a lunch box?" Or ask more specifically, and worry about the child who is far away, "Are you eating properly?" He asked me, and he sent me money even though he didn't say he wanted it.
Well, there are many ways to express their words and actions from person to person.
If you say this personality, that's the end of the story, but it's like "that's a personality, so it can't be helped", and that's the end.
However, this is a way to solve what the other person is worried about, and it's not something that that person should be careful about, right?
Moreover, it's not like that such a persistent person doesn't have to do anything, is it?
If you don't be careful with people with persistent personalities, not everyone on the other person will end up with "because it's personality".
Some people get angry.
That's why even persistent people have to have a way to protect themselves.
The method is to "stop persisting".
It's pretty easy, isn't it?
But for that, there is something you have to do first.
It is to be aware of whether you are a persistent personality or not.
For example, don't people around you often say it?
"You're persistent" or something like that.
People who are often told that are definitely persistent people.
If you don't have to tell, please check yourself a little.
Didn't you say and do the same thing many times?
So, aren't you making the other person feel uncomfortable?
Didn't you make him look puzzled?
Such people are also people who are suspected of being persistent.
Not only self-check, but also listen to other people's evaluations.
I like people who are honest.
Please choose a person who will say things to you without being careless about yourself.
If you are suddenly told, it may be a little heartwarming at first, but that's the very impression of yourself that others receive, and it's a fact.
In the end, I'm just the only one who doesn't realize it.
That's why I think it will be quite embarrassing, so let's make up your mind, have courage, and be told as much as we can.
If you do that, on the contrary, you may feel in a good mood.
"Oh, I feel refreshed!" That's it.
"If you say it that clearly, on the contrary, it will be refreshing!" It may also be a state of mind.
Therefore, it is also recommended to check from others.
So, is this all right?
Once you're done with your check, the rest is easy.
If you are aware of it, all you have to do is continue to practice until you can stop what you are persistently saying and doing.
There is probably an error, but the shortest is 3 weeks.
If it takes up to half a year, the persistent personality will probably be cured.
After that, the persistent personality will become your weapon and you will be able to handle it.
If necessary, put out or withdraw persistently.
There are also advantages to persistent things, so you will be able to do this, so it's a great deal if you acquire this skill.
Therefore, I strongly recommend that you first be aware of it, and then practice stopping persitness, and finally use "persiveness" on your side in these two stages.
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