When you want to be cool, it's better not to involve others.

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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today I will explain about "When you want to look cool, it's better not to involve others".

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Well everyone.

Are you around?

A person who causes trouble by getting others involved, despite appearing cool.

Haven't you experienced the same thing at work, at school, at home, or with friends?

As I said, it was the other day.

I used to drive and drive normally.

A car suddenly jumped out from the side, and I thought it was going to continue, but it suddenly stopped and was trying to give priority to the oncoming car and cross it.

I think it was done out of kindness, so I don't mind, but before that, I suddenly jumped out.

I was a little surprised by this, and I became suspicious of the driver.

Still, I will make the oncoming car cross.

Even if you don't do it, someone else will do it, or when the line of cars breaks, you should be able to cross it on your own...

So what I've learned from this experience is that if you make a bad first impression, doing good things afterwards won't look like you're doing anything good at all.

So do these experiences only happen when you're driving?

It's different.

Isn't it normal to wake up in everyone's normal life?

As I said before, this is true at work, at home, at school, and with friends.

It is a psychological phenomenon in which even if you do good deeds afterward, if you do something disappointing before that, the impression will be dragged and you will be disappointed even after that.

So, what should I do in such a case?
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To do that, look around.​
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Make a conscious effort to understand the feelings of others.​
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And finally, don't overdo it.​

In the example of the car I gave today, it doesn't jump out suddenly.

Even if you think you can make it in time.

If you think that you shouldn't have an accident, please think a little.

To whom is the idea that "it's okay not to cause an accident"?

would you be yourself?

Or your opponent?

Well, it's good if you don't have an accident, so this word will be a word for yourself.

In other words, it becomes a selfish word that if you are good, it is good.

On the contrary, what kind of words will come out if you use words for the other party?

Well, for example, it's better not to cause an accident, or it's better not to get involved.

Given this, what is your next course of action?

Will you suddenly start the car and jump out just because you're in time?

If you don't want to get your opponent involved, you don't jump out suddenly.

Just make sure to take safety precautions and leave slowly.

This is what it means to look at your opponent.

If you look at the other person, you will naturally be able to understand the feelings of the other person.

I wonder if they are thinking like this because of the current situation.

How do you feel?

Avoiding disappointment increases self-confidence.

The more trust you have, the more benefits you will have, and the easier your life will be.

So, if you want to spend your life in easy mode even a little, please try this method.

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