"I wish it was this person, but it's impossible for this person" is just an assumption
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Have you ever thought about events in your daily life that make you think, "I hope it's this person, but it's impossible if it's this person"?
I think this is quite there.
Because people have good or bad compatibility, don't they?
Don't you often hear, "I can't do it with a person with this personality, but if I were a person with this kind of personality, I would like to get along?"
Or I don't think so, myself?
Well, that can't be helped, right?
It's not that bad, is it?
I would be sorry if there were people who were worried about personality inconsistencies, but for example, from a serious person's point of view, you can't forgive a rough person, right?
If you are a serious person, you can't forgive if you don't do everything properly, but on the other hand, a rough person has the image that he is appropriate for everything.
Well, there are people who look serious but are actually not serious, or people who look rough but actually have a well-thought-out appropriateness.
But it's a pretty rare case, so I'll leave it here for now.
Well, with two people with such personalities, no matter how long it takes, the relationship between the two is a parallel line, right?
In addition, there is a habit that I can't forgive.
People with fastidiousness can't use the same chopsticks and cups as others.
Also, it may be physiologically impossible, right?
This is the worst, isn't it?
If it's physiologically impossible, it means that you don't want to accept it from the beginning, about others.
I don't know what it is, but the reason is not clear, but I just don't want to get close.
It's like your instinct makes you do that, and if you get close, you'll get allergic symptoms.
Well, when you get to this point, it feels a little sick, but almost all the analogy I've told you so far, in fact, would you be surprised if you said it was simply your own assumption?
For a lot of affirmation, agreement, and sympathy, "Are you going to turn over in the end?" I said something like that, but "No, it's not like that!" Did you want to deny everything?
Well, I understand that feeling.
Because it's also true that I haven't accepted it until now.
But I want you to think about it here.
For example, try to change your way of thinking and see that person you don't like as just a person.
Neither a man nor a woman, not the person I like, not the person I hate, I'm just a person.
It's just a creature, humanoid.
There are dogs, cats, bears, sheep, elephants, and there are people there.
It doesn't matter what kind of person that person is, I throw away all the unnecessary information that shapes that person's personality, take it all off from my head, and see it as just a person.
He is just a person who has a head, hands, a torso, and legs.
Well, the only one who speaks Japanese is just seen as a person.
What do you think?
If you think this much, don't you feel like you can get a little closer to that person you're not good at?
If you look around once without the information that shapes that person's personality, won't that person, this person, people, people who like it and those who don't like it, those who are good at it and those who are not good at it, look like just a humanoid creature?
If that happens, this person is fine, but won't the assumption that this person is impossible also fade?
If you don't have a face, try to look at the other person's face, or try to capture it in a rough framework of having eyes, a nose, a mouth, eyebrows, and ears, just like everyone else.
How about that?
Unexpectedly, can't you have a normal conversation?
Don't you think, "Oh, it's just a humanoid creature"?
The person who has come to think of is perfect.
That's right.
Everyone perceives the individuality of the person they are not good at, so it seems that everything about that person is not good at it.
In other words, if you try to factor the person you are not good at, you are not good at the mouth of the person you are not good at, you are not good at the ears of the person you are not good at, you are not good at the eyebrows of the person you are not good at, you are not good at the face of the person you are not good at, you are not good at the shape of the hand of the person you are not good at, I'm not good at the shape of the feet of a person who is not good at it, I'm not good at the height of the person I'm not good at, I'm not good at the shape of the buttocks, I'm not good at hairstyle, I'm not good at personality, I'm not good at eating rice, I'm not good at all the behavior, I'm not good at all or part of the elements that make up that person It's a kena.
By the way, physiologically impossible is probably because the person has a sense of air that is invisible to the eye, the photon of light in quantum mechanics, and the wave in spiritual way that does not match what you have at all. .
Like the S pole and N poles in magnets.
Sometimes, is it quite everywhere?
A community where there are people who don't get along with each other.
It's the one who says, "Those people are like dogs and monkeys, aren't they?"
Such people must be people who have this kind of atmosphere.
So today, I talked a little bit about "I hope it's this person, but this person is impossible".
Through today's story, I think you understood that everything was your own assumption, but that doesn't mean you can overcome that person you're not good at right away.
However, if you continue this work steadily, your subconscious will change, so one day you won't like that person you're not good at or that person you don't like, but wouldn't it go back to just interacting?
The period is roughly half a year.
If you continue for half a year, people's habits will change, so please continue for at least half a year.
I recommend it to those who really want to do their best, or those who want to change a little.
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