I don't understand the distance at work, what should I do?
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This time, it's a sense of distance at work, so there's no doubt that a sense of distance is a sense of distance between colleagues, superiors, subordinates, etc.
Therefore, we will focus on the distance from people at work, especially the people in the company.
Well, I think there are quite a lot of people who are worried about this sense of distance.
Because even though they work at the same workplace, they are all strangers.
I basically don't know what other people are thinking.
So first of all, the first stance is to be aware of "I don't know others", "I don't know what to think, what I want you to do, and how to act".
First of all, what I want you to do is this way of thinking.
I want you to put this idea of "I don't know about others" deeply engraved in your center and heart, or deeply into your heart.
Never forget, until you die, recite deeply, repeatedly, and penetrate into your subconscious.
Or, I want you to write it somewhere that is easy to see and paste it so that you can remember it quickly even if you forget it, or put it on the waiting screen of your smartphone.
If you do that, you will feel better at once.
My life turns around so much that it becomes ridiculous to wonder why I've been worried about such things until now.
So first of all, I want you to work on this work.
So, on top of that, I want you to look at things from a bird's eye view.
A bird's-eye view is to observe your words and actions with the feeling of taking a step back.
Observe when you take a step back from the distance between yourself and the people in the company.
Whether each other's way of speaking is interlocking, whether the words they use match, where is the best place to look, whether the more gestures are matched with the other person, or is it better to have less, facial expressions, etc., and clothing, I will think about the harmony with the other person by deeply observing various places such as the scent of the minute.
That way, you will know who you are and how you treat them.
You can see how the so-called communication is.
I mean, you try to have a bird's-eye view many times until you can see it, the interaction between yourself and people in the company, where you take a step back, many times.
Otherwise, it won't lead to a solution.
Please think like this.
Standing on the stage of the theater is everyone and the people in the company.
And it's like I'm the other person in the audience of the theater.
You will know how you are dealing with others and what kind of distance you are in, so you will self-diagnose based on whether the sense of distance is uncomfortable or comfortable for you. That's why.
If you can diagnose it as comfortable, the sense of distance is OK.
As long as the other party's sense of distance does not change, it will be no problem to continue.
However, when you feel uncomfortable yourself, the sense of distance is wrong.
That's why it needs to be corrected.
And I'm sure the discomfort is also transmitted to the other party.
It has already been scientifically proven that people have mysterious properties, but have you ever heard of the term mirror neuron?
Thanks to this substance called mirror neuron, people can transfer emotions to each other.
It's not telepathy, but have you eve heard that emotions spread?
For example, in a theater, when there is an "earthquake" or "a fire", everyone screams and runs away...
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