Don't persuade people who are angry
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Well, everyone.
What would you do if it were everyone?
I immediately started with the question, but let's say someone was angry.
Or let's say you were talking together and got angry because of something.
You can talk hard, and you can't help but get hot, and you may have different opinions and get angry, right?
At such a time, if it were everyone, would you just talk about your own opinion and persuade the other person?
Or do you step back and listen to the other person's opinion?
In fact, it would be much better for yourself to step back once.
Well, even if you say you step back, it doesn't mean that you completely ignore it and go somewhere else.
Depending on the situation at that time, complete withdrawal is also one move, but what we say here is to say that we are to listen to that person.
For example, when we talk to each other seriously, we can't help but get a fever and bump into each other, right?
At such times, when I calm down and think about it, I understand very well, but in the end, we just disagree with each other's opinions.
If you look at each other in detail, it means that we have different ways of thinking.
Isn't it natural if you think about it if you think about it differently?
However, many people forget about it and try their best to impose their ideas on the other person to persuade them.
Moreover, it's just that we both think differently, and it's not a mistake in itself, is it?
It's just that what we've learned from each other, what we've believed, and what we thought was right are just a little different.
I can't because I'm stubborn and try to tell the other person.
I'm going to bump into it.
That's why we shouldn't deny this to each other.
I'll say it again.
Everyone believes in different things and tastes.
Many people have a sense of resistance when they try to make it the same as themselves.
I resist because I don't want to change.
And collide.
In other words, you should not impose your own opinion or try to persuade them to twist or correct the other person's opinion or way of thinking.
I'll say it for the third time, because it's something I've believed in until then.
However, if you still have an idea that is obviously wrong and too biased, if you dare to do it, you will gently admonish it and take it so that you can make yourself realize it.
It's like carefully guiding the other person's way of thinking to your own way of thinking.
However, this is it, if the blood rises in the head, you won't be able to do it.
This way of thinking is blown away.
By all means, emotions collide with emotions, so you can't judge things calmly.
I can't help it, because I'm trying my best to push through my arguments.
That's why it doesn't make much sense to persuade people who are angry or excited.
Moreover, if you do too much, you will become estranged while fighting with each other, become "I will never listen to you again", and if you don't do it well, you will buy resentment.
Once you are resentful, the rest is troublesome.
So, there is only one thing to do when you are about to bump into each other.
Listen to the other person's story for the time being.
If you do that, the other party will naturally calm down, and we will also be able to calm down for the time being.
If that happens, we can talk to each other calmly, so the subsequent development will be easier to go smoothly.
Don't you think that if you control your relationships well like this, you can live a comfortable life?
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For people who say, "I'm not good at this kind of thing" or "I can't help but get angry," it's okay to do a little bit, so why don't you start by listening to people's stories a little bit every day as if you were doing muscle training?
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