"Can I do 〇〇?" How to get along well with people who say.

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Well, today, "Can I do 〇〇?" I'm going to talk about how to get along well with people.

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

"Can I do 〇〇?" A person who asks.

I mean, this is normal, isn't it?

Can I do 〇〇?

In order to refuse people for the time being, it's a kind of courtesy, or you ask in advance to avoid trouble, or say hello.

Then, next time you were told this, did anyone feel that it was actually a chance?

You're not here, are you?

What kind of opportunity is this? Actually, it's a chance to make human relationships, and it's also a chance to create high-quality human relationships.

That is to say, in the first place, "Can I do 〇〇?" Let's think about the psychology of the person who says that.

"Can I do 〇〇?" At that point, first of all, this is a signal to the person who was told by the person who said, "I can have contact with you."

That's because I don't usually talk to people who don't want to have contact first.

In other words, calling out means that the door has opened to say that you can start a relationship with the other person.

That means, the other party has a sign saying, "You can build a relationship with you," so this time, what you do yourself is to accept that sign, right?

If you refuse, of course, it means to refuse the relationship with the other person, so you will miss the chance to make a relationship at that point.

So if, "Can I do 〇〇?" When I was told that, the person who said that to me is an important person, or a person who wants to deepen a relationship, or it may be a bad way to say it, but if you are a person who can get it or be happy, don't deny it immediately If you return a reply that accepts or affirms questions from the other person, such as "It's okay", "Of course", "Of course", "I'm happy", it will be an opportunity for the human relationship between that person and you to start.

It's just the beginning, so in order to deepen the relationship from there, you need another way, or the other party says, "Can I do 〇〇?" If you want to abuse yourself and try to abuse yourself, there are various things you need to know, such as how to notice at that time and how to deal with it, so if you want to hear more about that area, please make friends on my official LINE. Please register and ask questions from there.

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Also, every day like this, I blog about how to communicate well, how to build good relationships, and about the psychology of "people who do 〇〇", and about issues, worries and phenomena that occur related to "people".

So, if you are interested, please come to my past blog.

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