How to get close to people who talk to you with an answer from the beginning.

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Well, today I will talk about "how to get close to people who talk to me with answers from the beginning" while brushing up my past blog.

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Then it's the main topic.

I often see people like this.

I asked people for their opinions, and when I said that opinion, in the middle of the story, "No!" Or, "That's not it!" Or, "I knew it, I think like this." A person who suddenly pokes people's opinions.

Aren't you pretty close to me?

I think I'm asking people because I have problems and worries, but I don't listen to my opinion...

If you just want me to listen to you, be honest and say, "Listen to me!" If you say that, I will also listen obediently, but I didn't say anything at first and suddenly talked for the first time, and I just answered because I was asked my opinion on the way, but I said, "No, that's not the case." Isn't it too one-sided to suddenly deny it when you're told that?

If you ask people for their opinions, as the worst manners, I think, "Listen to this story" until the end, but is this also selfish?

(I recently studied about selfishness, so let me talk to you.

The original article is the article of Cybozu President's Office @ Mochi.

I'll post that link. Https://note.com/mocchi_0808/n/nfe1c88c185ac

Among them, selfishness is written as "my way", so in other words, as it is, as I am.

Yes, in other words, selfishness means that you can also take it in the sense of "my way".

The original meaning of selfishness, as you can find out, has the meaning of what you want, selfishness.

But in this sense, it's hard to accept.

If someone tells you, "Well, you're selfish," to be honest, you won't feel good.

But when I think of "my way", I think that selfishness is not so bad, rather that selfishness is more suitable for the current era.

Well, back to the preamble of the article, "If you're going to listen to people's opinions, for the time being, as the worst manners, the thought of "listen to this story" is my selfishness, so I'm sure that thought is my honest feeling. I guess so.)

Well, most people like this have an answer from the beginning, and they just want you to agree with it.

If that's the case, I wish I could touch the main topic quickly without asking people for their opinions, but I wonder why they would do such a ridiculous thing.

(If you think about this type of speaking from the perspective of the mechanism of the brain, it is very easy to understand, and first of all, as a way of thinking, the brain can be divided into a male brain and a female brain.

And it is said that there are many people in the female brain who speak the type as mentioned above.

Because people who have a female brain can talk a lot regardless of the form.

It's a little biological theory here, but women were originally creatures that couldn't survive unless they communicated with a lot of people because they were powerless.

It was such a lifestyle habit to create a herd by communicating, and everyone helps each other and lives in that group.

So, by talking a lot, the female brain is gradually updated, and as a result, it is up to now.

That's why many women don't care whether they have a conclusion or not, and it's not at all hard to talk about what happened that day to the end.

It's like that.

Don't you have any experience with men?

When talking to women, "Why do you talk so much?" or "Isn't there a punch line to that story?" Or, "Well, what's the conclusion?" What I felt like.

That's right, so I'll go back to the story, but "I just want you to agree" is a manifestation of "I want you to listen without denying the story", and "I just want you to listen to me" means "I just want to talk", so it's a manifestation of "I just want to talk", so It can be interpreted as "Listen to me without denying what I say and let me speak as much as I want", so it can be said that there are many people who have a female brain.)

I'm sure you just want me to take care of you.

(If you understand the psychology of a person who has such a female brain, it is surprisingly easy to grab that person's heart.

So what should I do? In other words, it is to listen to the story, "Yeah, yeah" while talking to each other.

I won't deny it even if the answer is different.

Even if there is a better way, I won't give advice.

In such a case, I just want you to listen to me, so just listening to the story according to that request is enough to satisfy the other person's desire, and when you have something you want to talk about, "Ah! I'm going to think, "Let's talk to that person again," so if that happens, you're already a complete repeater.

After that, the more you become a persistent repeater, the more Zaian's effect will be demonstrated, so it's a chance to have a close relationship with that person at once.)

See you later✌️

(So today I talked about "how to be intimate with people who talk to me with answers from the beginning."

The conversation got a little messy on the way, how was it?

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Next time, I'll do my best to write it together a little more.

See you tomorrow✌️)