I can't join the circle of mom friends, what should I do?
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Then it's a continuation of yesterday...
In that case, if you don't change, you won't be able to get into that circle even if it takes your whole life.
Then you have to force yourself a little to change yourself, right?
Because I'm changing myself until now.
Whether the impossible will end in an instant or will it continue forever, this is a battle with yourself, isn't it?
Perhaps, if the existence of a leader changes, the direction of the community will also change, so you have to change yourself again.
Moreover, even in the community, "who is not on good terms with anyone", "that person's husband works for 〇〇 Shoji and is an elite", and "My child is going to participate in the national tournament next time, it's amazing!" Oh, you'll have to enter the bragging tournament, and you'll have to take the gap between people who are not close to each other, so you're pretty busy with things to do, right?
If you go to school on a visiting day, you can rest assured because you have a mom friend.
It's just the ostar.
So, I slipped my mouth pretty much today, but how is it actually?
For example, replace it with your own and think about it.
How many friends did you still have when you were a student?
Or, when you were working for a company, how many people have been dating their previous colleagues after changing jobs?
This is almost gone, isn't it?
I'm the same, but in the end, people spend more time with people who belong to the closest community, so every time they move around that community, human relationships change.
There are still people who have something to do with everyone they've met in their lives, right?
As expected.
If there is, it will be a big deal, right?
Well, it depends on your age, but even if you meet one person once a year, you won't be able to make it in time, right?
So, if there are people you meet, there are people who leave.
In other words, there is a high possibility that mom friends who want today's counselor will eventually leave them.
Probably around the time you graduate from your child's school, nursery school, or kindergarten.
I don't want to strongly hold back those who say, "That's fine," but they are people who can only become such a thin relationship, so if you relax your shoulders and spend your time without trying to get along, naturally And among them, only like-minded people will gather.
Therefore, I strongly recommend that you take your time and wait until the opportunity comes, and keep your mind so as not to miss it when you come.
I'll say it one last time.
I don't have to be sad even if I can't do it.
Because even if you have mom friends, most of them will only be dating for a short period of time.
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