The biggest disadvantage that appears in people who are too humble
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Today, I'm going to talk about the biggest disadvantage that appears in people who are too humble, what do you think?
Have you ever thought about the disadvantages at least once?
Do you mean, "Are there any disadvantages to being humble?" Aren't there some people who think so?
"Humility is good!" " There's something deep, isn't it?" or "It's nice to be Japanese!" What.
That's why there aren't many of this, right?
However, in addition to that, I'm usually busy, everyone too.
There are various tasks coming in, just living a normal life.
If you finish one thing, something new will come in.
In the proverb, there is a saying, "One trouble leaves and another difficulty", right?
Do you know?
This is exactly what I just talked about.
One difficulty left and another difficulty.
When one troublesome errand is finished, the next troublesome errand comes in.
That's the meaning, isn't it?
Well, I think the person who wrote this proverb was probably a person with negative roots.
Because I thought the events that happened were a difficult problem.
What would have happened if this happened was a happy thing?
Is it about "one happiness leaves and one happiness again"?
But this is kind of bad, and it doesn't seem to be popular.
Maybe there is another idiom or proverb with the same meaning.
So, I'm going to have Google-sensei appear here, but I'm quitting today.
Because I can't move forward.
The story.
So, I'll leave the search to everyone, and I'll proceed with today's story in the future.
Well, today's point is, after all, humility.
If you are too humble, it means that you are too humble, but aren't you around you?
Aren't you too humble to lose a little? That person.
Isn't there much?
Please observe carefully, there are quite a few.
Because, there should probably be at least 10% in the community you belong to.
That's because it's a phenomenon that occurs when people form a group.
It is a natural phenomenon.
Please think again.
Don't you feel uncomfortable when you see this kind of person as someone close to you?
Because humility is a very good thing.
That's what I learned too.
Until I realized today's story, I even thought it was absolute justice.
Moreover, there is also a saying, "Be humble".
But you realized that this is actually a matter of degree.
Well, I think it's best to use it differently, like "in some cases, it's humble, and in another case, it's arrogant".
Then why does being too humble become a disadvantage, but being too humble means that it doesn't come forward, right?
"I'm fine", "I'm fine" and "I'm fine too", "It's okay later", etc., quite a lot of people, people with such a humble personality, tend to say this line, right?
What kind of impression will this have from the point of view of the inviter?
I'm sure you're thinking, "What's that, even though it's a great opportunity..."
Aren't there many people who are really disappointed, saying, "It's a great opportunity, but I wish I could try it?"
Well, I can't force the other person to do what they don't like anymore, so if you do that, your relationship will collapse, you will have a fight, if you don't do it well, you will be traumatized, and it will be a case that can develop into a lawsuit.
So I can't force it, but from the point of view of the inviter, I think it looks very passive?
It can't be helped if you think you're not motivated, you don't have the initiative, you don't have a sense of the problem, well, it's like this.
And I've tried to list various negative information, but in fact, some people think they're not motivated, so I won't say it.
If that happens, you will lower your rating without permission.
People who are not interested are fine, but you will not get the trust of those around you.
It's a really wasteful story.
So, it's good to be humble, but as I said a little earlier, be case-by-case, sometimes arrogant and aggressive, but sometimes be humble and be able to control yourself and those around you. I highly recommend it.
Being thought to be unmotivated is also a factor in being left alone by those around you, so if you want to get along with those around you, blend in, and continue to stay in the community you belong to for a long time, think carefully about humility again. Why don't you take a look?
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