In the heart of a person who refuses to say "I can't do it" when they ask for something

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Haven't you all heard of it in many places?

The line that says "I can't do it."

You hear it a lot, everywhere.

This line that is not strange, in fact, there was a hidden psychology in the person who said this line.

I'll explain it from now on.

First of all, it's a word "I can't do it", but if you think about it carefully, it's correct in Japanese, but in terms of meaning, it's an impossible word.

That is to say, in everything, if it is in this world, you can do almost everything.

If you practice.

Even if you are told to "Do the skills of a top-notch professional", it depends on the talent you were born with, so it's quite difficult, but other than that, you can do it if you practice a lot unexpectedly.

To some extent.

For example, if you practice until you can ride a bicycle, you can do it even if you can't do it at first, and it's just a story that you can't do it like a sprint.

If you practice to be able to do typing on your PC, you will be able to do what you couldn't do at first.

Even if it's not top-notch, I can do it enough to say "I can do it" to people.

So if you think about the word "I can't" from the meaning, it's bankrupt from the beginning.

But why do so many people say "I can't do it"? But that's because I don't want to do it.

The identity of "I can't do it" is actually "I don't want to do it".

"Hey, 〇〇-kun. Can you do this for me?" When asked, people who answer "I can't do it" are not that they can't do it for the first time, it's not that they can't do it, they just don't want to do it.

Even though you'll be able to do it eventually if you practice, you just don't try to do it.

So I'll summarize it.

In the heart of a person who refuses to say "I can't do it" when he asks for something, in fact, "I just don't want to do it".

However, one follow-up at the end.

If you don't want to do it, there is a reason why you don't want to do it, so I recommend that you ask the reason first, rather than scolding without thinking.

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