Simply choose a reliable person

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "simply, the best choice of people you can trust".

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Well, everyone.

Have you ever wanted to gain the trust of others at least once?

I've thought about this several times.

So I desperately thought about what to do to gain trust from people for a while and put it into practice.

Well, as a result, perhaps thanks to being able to become a trustworthy person, I guess I was able to get an important position now.

However, trust is something that I have come to understand if I have it, but I can see not only the good side, but also the bad side if I have it, and there was a time when I was quite troubled by it.

When I didn't have it, I wanted it, but when I finally got it, I sometimes thought, "No, it's hard to get too much of this."

Moreover, as a result of that trust, there were people who abused it, and in the end, in the end, it became a form of strangling myself, so I don't think I want that much trust now, I'm no longer obsessed, and to some extent, I have If so, and with the trust of people who feel comfortable with, you can feel that it is enough.

So, I just mentioned a little about the conclusion about the tragic end that waits for people who have gained too much trust, but I think there are people who want to gain the trust of others from now on, so today I will talk about such people. Su.

Well, first of all, let's talk about the merits of credit.

There are several of these, and I think some of you already know about them, but I'll check them again.

First of all, human relationships will improve.

When human relationships get better, various things will turn around in a secondary way, right?

It's like you've already enjoyed all the benefits, but for example, there are times when it's a little hard to complete the task by yourself, right?

At such a time, if you ask someone you trust, they will probably give you the OK, right?

So first of all, it is mentioned that it is easy to get collaborators.

This is very useful when you want to boost things you can't do or do alone.

The rest is simply to lend money and receive various things, and the circulation of money and things will improve.

So, you can live comfortably with just this, right?

In this way, if you gain credibility, you will get a lot of benefits.

So, it goes without saying that it is definitely better to have something than nothing, but this is also a material for creating an easy mode of life.

So it doesn't hurt to remember.

Well, what kind of person can you trust? That's today's theme, so I'll talk about that area.

It's sudden, but I'd like to ask everyone.

When you think of a trustworthy person, what kind of person do you imagine?

Are you a person who keeps your promises?

Are you a person who can be kind to others?

Are you a serious person?

Well, is it roughly like this?

Speaking of which, if you say that the examples I just mentioned are also trustworthy people, it's true, but if you say, "That's the answer," it's not interesting at all, and moreover, even though I'm saying one choice, I've listed three, and it's not a choice at all, and it's still If you do, you will become a liar, so I will introduce a selection of people who can be trusted from a more core perspective.

What kind of person is it? "A person who agrees with what the other person says and adds to what he said and gives new information".

This is hard to find, isn't it?

What is it like?

Is there anyone around you who immediately comes to mind?

Well, if you look closely, there are probably about 20% to 20% in every community?

That means it's quite a valuable human resource, isn't it?

Now, I'll explain why.

A person who agrees with what the other person says and adds it to what he said and gives new information.

Wouldn't it be amazing if there were people like this?

Because first of all, when you agree, you are in tune with the other person.

From a psychological point of view, harmony is a way to get along with each other.

Normally, isn't it more comfortable for people to be affirmed than to be denied?

That's why people naturally like people who affirm more than those who deny.

On top of that, they add more to the information we gave and return new information.

This is already the domain of God, isn't it?

If you receive that information, it means that you will become smarter for free.

And in a short time.

But there are people inside who mistake the person who gives the new information for the person who takes the mount.

It's common for people with low self-esteem, that is, people who don't like themselves.

It's a story about people who are easy to belittle compared to others, but this is a different story, so I won't dig deep here.

Well, that kind of psychology also works.

Well, how was it so far?

Well, don't you think you'll be certified as a trustworthy person?

From others.

So, everyone, please give it a try.

When you receive any information from someone else, try adding one to that information and returning it.

If you do that, some people's credibility will skyrocket.

However, as I said earlier, people with low self-affirmation will not be able to positively perceive the additional new information, so they will be attacked at that time.

But that can't be helped.

Because that person just has a mindset that he can't accept honestly.

Well, don't worry, try it more and more for others.

I think there are probably more people who accept it positively.

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