Why candy and whips are needed to control people
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Have you ever heard the word "candy and whip" at least once?
Isn't there a lot of people who have heard of this?
First of all, for those who say "I've never heard of it", I'll check it from the point of on that sense.
For this explanation, let's ask Mr. Google.
That's why I searched.
Then there was an analogy of having both the sweet side and the harsh side when doing discipline.
In other words, the sweet side is the candy, and the harsh side is the whip.
When you do discipline, etc., you don't say that you can't just be sweet, and sometimes it's meaningless if you don't be strict, but it means that it's not very effective.
Don't you think everyone is right?
For example, it's okay at work, during club activities, or during school classes.
Anything is fine, but if it's a community where people gather.
Is there always nothing in it?
There are people who are strict and people who are sweet.
For members in the community.
You often watch dramas and movies, don't you?
"That's why 〇〇 is always sweet!" It's like a scene where a strict person complains to a sweet person.
That's exactly it.
Suppose, well, there are almost none, but what if it's full of sweet people, that community?
I'm sure that no matter what happens, you'll be done with "Well, it's okay", right?
Even if a crime happens, even if you break a promise, even if you do something that hurts people.
That's why it looks like a pretty happy world, but if you look at productivity alone, I'm sure it's an inefficient world.
Even if you fail, you can say "so-so", and even if you make a mistake, you can say "Well, it's okay".
In such a world, people will be too spoiled and forget to work hard.
I remembered that there was a movie version of Doraemon's story where only such people lived before.
It was a well-made story, and it was certainly creepy.
Because Gian has become a very good person and a loving person.
Well, that's all for the side, then, on the contrary, how about a community composed only of strict people?
This is also terrible, isn't it? Just imagining it gives me a headache.
This is like a black company a long time ago.
It seems that there is still a little left, but overtime, super early departure, sleeping at the company, service all days a week, and abusive violence are also a natural worldview.
That is the world of movies and stories.
This is also a world that has been a little too much.
Even in club activities, kicks and punches fly, even swing a bamboo sword, don't drink water, let the head be a monk, it's like women must wear a bloomer.
This is also a disgusting world when I think about it now.
It's like a world where only the powerful have a wide range.
Well, these worlds are strange, aren't they?
The reason why the world is so terrible is, of course, because it is too biased towards one side, right?
That's why the world is not working well.
On the one hand, a world that ruins people because they are too sweet.
And on the other hand, it's a world that ruins people because it's too strict.
Both are like that, and if you are too biased, you will ruin people.
So what is needed there is an eclectic world that incorporates both elements.
In order for people to control living things well, it is necessary to incorporate both of them and "sometimes candy, sometimes whip".
In fact, it seems that research results have shown that about 20% of people who are stressed are the most efficient to work and move.
In the past, I was able to revive Japan as soon as possible, and thanks to the hard work of the post-war people, 80% strict and 20% sweet work, I think that rich Japan was able to recover at super speed.
But now that everything is almost saturated, it is a world where individuals also value happiness, so I think 80% sweet and 20% strict is just right.
So, I've talked about a lot, but did you understand?
Why do we need candy and whips to control people? About.
Please be aware of this and try to use it in your community.
I'm sure it will work well, and the community will move.
And everyone who runs the community well can expect their own growth, and as they start to think about it, it will gradually become more fun.
Therefore, if you are interested, we strongly recommend that you challenge with your world line and continue to challenge.
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