My boss's attitude is changing a lot, what should I do?
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In this case, we need to think about it from two aspects first.
First of all, it is a way to dig deeper into the feelings of the boss.
What kind of feeling was the boss at this time?
Is there any one who can imagine?
However, each boss, depending on the job type and workplace situation, what you specifically envision will be different, but what is common to many people is that they are easily influenced by the stimulation they receive from the surrounding environment.
At first glance, people are motivated from within themselves, change their behavior, change of behavior, "Ah! Let's do that," or, "Oh, that's right, I have to do this!" It tends to seem like you're taking action, but most of them are changes in behavior triggered by seeing something and remembering it, or hearing something and thinking "Let's try it".
In other words, it seems that you are acting because you want to do your own actions, but in fact, you are being stimulated by the environment around you other than yourself and moving it into action.
That means that the boss who appears in this problem is surely influenced by the person's surroundings, and his attitude changes every time.
So, if you carefully observe the influence around it, what is affecting it? What is stimulating? What is changing the attitude of the boss? You should be able to see what is the trigger.
Once you know something about it, the rest is easy.
If you can remove that trigger, I think that the boss's attitude will change a lot.
However, it's kind of difficult to get rid of everything.
Because I have to keep an eye on that boss all the time.
Even outside of work.
Even if you do that, on the day you do that, you yourself may be a trigger to change your boss's behavior.
So, please stop doing things that are too close and stalking.
You may be arrested before your boss's changing attitude is cured.
Well, this time, I'll look at this boss from another aspect.
Once again, this boss is a person whose attitude changes a lot, isn't he?
That means that you think it's troublesome to go out with this side every time with that changing attitude, so that's what you're worried about, isn't it?
Because people who can keep up with a changing attitude, people who can communicate well, and people who can ignore it don't have such worries.
So the answer is simple.
This boss decides, "You're a person who changes your attitude."
Then, somehow, the fact naturally starts to blend into you.
For example, you can't go to the place where you said to the baby, "Please go to the bathroom by yourself," right?
Because it's a baby.
This is a reason that comes to mind right away, but it's not an explanation, at all.
What's impossible if you're a baby? I can't explain it.
But if you think about various reasons later, various things will come out.
However, if you ask me at a glance, the answer that comes out at a glance will be decided.
The answer is, "Because it's a baby."
In other words, as a composition of the way of thinking, we adopt this.
"The attitude of the boss changes a lot."
The answer is, "Because he's such a person."
This is all I need.
This alone makes me recognize that my brain is such a person.
Once the brain recognizes it, consciousness will stop digging further.
In other words, it means to "accept".
However, it may take a while for people to be able to "accept" this, but please don't give up and continue every day for about 3 weeks.
Eventually, you will be able to do it naturally.
People have mysterious powers, and they have the power to adapt.
This adaptability works, and in any environment, after about 3 weeks, your body and mind will get used to it.
Does it feel like you're getting used to that environment?
That's why it's a relatively easy way to reproduce without any pain, but you just have to be honest.
But the first one is a little more painful.
After all, I'm not used to the environment where there is a boss whose attitude changes a lot.
Everyone suffers because their own emotions are ahead of you, and it interferes with "accepting".
That's why it's only the first time, but it's a recommended method for those who have a little guts and can endure it.
Then it's the last one.
If you can't do it in these two ways, there is a special way.
It's a way of "leaving such a workplace quickly".
Well, there are various ways to consult with the counter, such as being able to move departments, the boss's boss's superior, or a company that has a power harassment consultation desk, but even if I said a lot of things, it didn't change. There are a lot of places in Japan that take time or don't deal with each other, so it may not be very effective.
If that's the case, isn't the immediate way to deal with it is to change jobs?
There are many other places to work, so take a deep breath and see how many people are working around you.
I'm sure you'll realize again that there are countless people.
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