The characteristics of a person who thinks it's good and lends a hand, but instead becomes a nuisance.

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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today, I will explain about "characteristics of people who think they are good and lend a hand, but instead become a nuisance".

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Well everyone.

Are you around?

People who say, "Well, I'm grateful that this person is helping me, but it's actually a nuisance."

Even if you look at this kind of person from the side, you think, "It's a pity."

The goodwill has not been fully utilized.

Rather minus point because it is getting in the way of the other party.

This will lower your self-esteem and leave you with a bad impression.

Then why is this happening? It's because you can't see your surroundings at all.​

I can't see what the other person is doing now and what they are going to do next.

Even if you do this and that in a state where you can't see it at all, it won't necessarily be addictive to the other person, and rather you will do unnecessary things and become a hindrance.

Then what you did for people is completely meaningless.

What should I do in this situation?

It starts with noticing whether you are doing something unnecessary.​

When people don't want others to touch them or do things they don't want them to do, their facial expressions, the way they speak, and their attitudes put on unpleasant feelings.

So take a look at your opponent.

They may make a disgusted face, use words that seem hesitant, or show an outright rejection.

If you still don't know, this is your last resort.

Be ashamed of yourself and ask the other person.

That way, you'll know if what you've done has benefited the other person or not.

It's easy if you throw away shame, pride, and coolness.

What next?

Next, look around the surrounding environment and equipment.

It's no use just looking at it.

Again, look around and observe.

Then you have a rough idea of ​​where things are.

For example, where is the trash can, where is the copy machine, where is the stationery, where is the washing area, where is the lower table, etc.

The more you know about it, the more likely it will help you.

And finally, practice.

For example, even if you can't do professional work, relatively anyone can handle simple miscellaneous tasks.

In other words, it is the completion of a success story of doing miscellaneous tasks and helping people.

If you do this, you won't be a nuisance to people, you will be useful, and if you do that, you will be trusted, so it will be easier for you to get important jobs, and your relationships will be much better.

Sometimes they will help you when you are in trouble, so why not start by helping them so that you don't cause them any trouble?

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