The biggest advantage that happens when you can tell others about black history
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the biggest benefit of being able to talk about black history to others".
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Well, everyone.
Everyone has one or two black history that you can't tell people, right?
I'm assuming it without permission, but some people don't think it's black history even if it's there, and they just recognize that there was such a history.
But today's story is that if you live as it is not black history, you will lose a lot.
Because, as I said earlier, you don't want to tell people about black history, do you?
But by saying that to others, doesn't your heart clear up?
I feel like I was able to expose my true self.
What's more, how would you feel if the person you said didn't change anything about you?
For example, how would you feel if you told your own black history and the other person drew it?
How would you feel if you could quit dating?
I'm sure many people will regret "I shouldn't have said it", right?
When I weighed my confession of black history and my relationship with the other person, and the desire to be connected, the connection with the other person was heavier, so it led to regret that "I shouldn't have said it", but that In order to continue the connection, is it necessary to hide your true self and connect?
Isn't it really more connected to someone who doesn't stop dating even if you know your true self?
Even if you only know your ostensibly self and go out with me, one day you will smile, and above all, you are having a hard time, right?
Being with others in a state of repair.
After all, isn't the best thing to be with people when you can relax?
If so, a person who tells his black history and leaves him is not a person who really wants to be connected, isn't he?
The people who really want to connect are people who don't run away even if they tell their black history.
Including that, wouldn't it be better to be able to live much happier than at that time if you were connected with someone who accepts you now and such a person?
"Is there such a person?" Some people may have doubts, but in this world, there is almost always a good job.
Someone who accepts you.
It's not much though.
However, many people can't wait for these people to appear.
Or, even if it appears, it's just that you haven't found it.
I'm afraid of being alone.
I'm sure you're worried, when it's like you've been sopped out of the herd.
So, even if it's a superficial world, it's okay to have a lot of friends, even if it's a shallow relationship, we tend to seek such a world.
I believe that there is peace of mind and stability there.
But there are many things that are not like that.
After all, the superficial world is only superficial.
If you tickle it a little, it will peel off immediately.
A world where someone takes someone's feet.
Saying behind your back, being mean, being jealous, comparing someone to someone, and being made a bad person without permission even if you think you are not at fault.
A lot of unreasonableness comes out.
Aren't you tired of this kind of world?
Even if you try your best to cling to a world like this, it will probably be a world full of vanity, but it will be a world that you thought was fun, but if you try to continue it until you die, won't you run out of breath in the middle?
Most people probably do.
In that case, wouldn't it be better to choose someone who won't run away even if he tells the black history?
Even if it's not a lively world, even if there are few such people.
It's much safer to have someone who won't leave no matter what happens, right?
"Oh, as expected, I can rest assured."
Moreover, when you are surrounded by people who don't go anywhere even if you know the black history, one more thing happens to you.
It means that you can be open-minded.
Then why can I be open-minded? I'll explain from that.
So, after that, I will also talk about the advantages.
First of all, the reason is that even if you know your worst history, you can think that there are people who do not avoid you, and that there are people who accept such a black self, which leads to your sense of security.
You can think, "You can say what's wrong with yourself," and "It's okay to expose everything about yourself," and "The world is not that different from what you think," so you can open your mind. Su.
That's why I'm open-minded.
Moreover, by telling someone about the black part of the past, I feel as if the facts have been cleaned, so I face my past self, think that it is also me, and I can understand that I am now because I am there, and I am a person who is even more I understand what kind of person he is.
Then, including that, you will be able to recognize yourself so far, and your phase will rise to the next level, leading to the power to affirm yourself.
When the ability to affirm yourself increases, there is a time lag, but the reality comes that everything is considered positively and only good things happen.
Speaking of which, it feels like it's a bit of a stinky religion, so it's a line I don't want to say too persistently, but other than this, there's no way to convey it in current Japanese.
But this can be explained properly from the point of view of brain science and psychology, and due to the nature of the brain and psychology, when the ability to affirm yourself increases, you can think positively and positively about yourself, and everything you can see is relatively positive. You will be able to see it.
I will omit that explanation today.
Moreover, when everything looks positive, everything that happens in front of your eyes seems to be good for you.
For example, even if that person you don't like, "You're a counter-teacher for yourself," or even if you fail at work, "I learned how to fail", almost all of the negatives are converted into positive.
Both the bright and the dark future are all born from one's own thoughts, but this time, there are others who affirm the existence of themselves after knowing the sense of affirmation from others and the black history that cannot be told to others, even more boo I'm going to strike, a sense of self-affirmation.
By the way, there are many people who know their black history and run away, people who talk behind their backs, and people who look at me with contempt, so you don't have to worry about them.
Such a person is a mirry person who goes there if he hears, "It seems that person is good," and if he hears, "This person seems to be good," he goes to that person.
Moreover, there are many such people who have a personality that fits in with others, so there are many people who don't have much of themselves.
You can't trust people who don't have yourself, do you usually?
So it's okay for such people to leave away after knowing their black history.
Don't worry.
Rather, what I cherish is people who still don't run away.
It is limited to this.
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