Discommunication and intuition.

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Well, today I'm going to brush up my past blog about "discommunication and intuition".

First of all, please do it all of a sudden.

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The other day, when I accompanied the user to the hospital.

(Because of your work, you sometimes take the elderly to the hospital.)

Well, there were various mistakes, and I decided to go on the day of the examination and the day of the examination on a different day.

(There is a mistake, but even if there is a mistake, it is a story that can be done if you correct it, but this time it is a story that the merit is greater if you do not correct it. The contents will come out later, so please proceed as it is.)

So, it was when I went to the examination.

We thought that we should just take an examination, so we thought it was like "I can go home soon", but on the day of the examination, "Please wait a moment because there is a medical examination before the examination." That's what they say.

(There's a mistake here. At the beginning, it was an explanation that "it's just an inspection." So, I was really thinking about the arrangement that I can only do the inspection, wait for my turn when the reception is over, and go home after the inspection. But on the day, if you suddenly say, "I have a medical examination," you will be prepared. The time also exceeds the schedule, doesn't it? The arrangements after that are also crazy, aren't they? It's a typical type of thinking pattern that doesn't think about the other person, and it's how to explain it. This is completely a lack of explanation from the other party.)

On the day, I was with the user's family, but we made eye contact with each other and said, "Then why don't you also have a medical examination after the examination today?" I was talking to you as I liked.

(There is a second mistake here. Initially, it was explained that "examination and examination will be done on a different day." But on the day, I was suddenly told, "I have a medical examination." If that's the case, of course you'll think, "Then why don't you have a medical examination after the examination?" Then, there will be more options in the future. Do you want to ask for a medical examination after the examination, or will you go home as soon as you were first told, or will you change the doctor's mind and then have a medical examination after the examination? At this point, we are thinking about the two patterns we put forward. You will start to think about which one is beneficial. Because each person has their own personal convenience.)

I usually emphasize efficiency, so I said to the teacher, "Can't you do it today?" That's what I heard, but I didn't even think of asking such a thing at all on that day.

My family also said, "Is it not good today?" Even though we were saying that together...

(It's the so-called intuition. For some reason, at this time, it was the day when I could honestly accept that intuition.)

Soon after that, the user's name was called, entered the examination room, and the doctor's examination was examined, and the doctor also said, "Can I get the test result in 3 days?" Despite being asked, aside from himself and his family, he was the most energetic "Hi!!︎" I answered, and he pretended not to care at all, but I had the impression that my family was a little nervous.

However, when I said it, at the end, I didn't turn back later, left the examination room with a face that didn't eat anything, and went to the examination room with my family.

(Is it the place where you said that your family was also pushed by my momentum? Or was it okay either? Well, when I was the first to say it instead of the important family, I was worried about "I wonder if I went out a little ..." in my heart, but I remember pretending not to know that my family didn't oppose it. However, more than that, I was more concerned about why I made that choice, and I think it was better to think about it first.)

As it gets later, if you think about it carefully, "What did you say!" I started to think, but after that, I talked about various things with my family, and sometimes I said, "Why don't you look at me today?" I also mentioned topics that should not be touched, but I didn't point out my brave feet or blame them.

However, due to the personality of the family, I left the hospital after the examination without touching anything that would often be there, even later, even if it was one of the complaints.

(Even at this time, the state of mind as a family was either good or whether they trusted me. There must have been something more beneficial than making a complaint. I didn't need to ask any more, so I didn't ask the reason, but for me, there were no complaints, I didn't feel awkward, and it was a day to finish the inspection with peace of mind.)

Well, I've considered various things about this matter myself, but due to my personality, I still think about efficiency, so I think it was the royal way to ask the teacher.

I think that it is the result of feeling that it is beneficial for users to instinctively do so before thinking with your head that you answered "It's okay as planned" instead of your family, like a word that came out of someone else's mouth.

In other words, if the consultation day is once, it will be very easy because I and my family will not be able to work twice, but from the user's point of view, I can meet my family twice, I can talk twice, and I can go out twice, so it's more profitable to have two visits than one visit. I think I instinctively felt it was expensive.

...Maybe?

If you have been experiencing various things for more than 20 years after doing this job, I wonder if you will have the power to instinctively sense.

(For a scientific explanation of intuition, I will take another opportunity. Otherwise, it will end in the middle due to the number of characters. So, what kind of cause and effect, my theme this year is "honing my intuition". Actually, I can also hone my intuition. So that you can feel it. You can practice riding a bicycle and upside down, and you can also train your intuition by polishing your skills. If you have any questions about this, I will answer you from my official LINE, so please register as a friend. I will post the ID and QR code of the official LINE at the bottom of this blog.)

See you later✌️

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I tried to touch a little more widely, from discommunication to intuition.

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