I'm not good at communicating, what should I do?
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Well, today, "I lack communication, what should I do?" I will answer your concerns.
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My answer is simple.
Simply put, you can increase communication, if you are worried about the lack of communication.
Hey!
It's easy, isn't it?
Even if you say that, "Aren't you worried because you can't do that?" It looks like you're going to say that.
That may be true.
There are two types of people in the world who can think simply and people who can't think simply.
But with the previous answer, I think about half of the people were able to get rid of this problem.
Well, next, for those who can't think simply, I'll delve a little deeper into this problem and answer it.
The point is, "Why is there a lack of communication?" That's the problem.
There is always a cause for the problem, so there is a corresponding cause even if it is insufficient.
If you know that, you can find the answer.
So, I'm going to find the answer.
First of all, it's the cause.
As I said earlier, if you don't know the cause, you can't find an answer.
Well, then, I think there are probably several possible causes.
In general, there is no one cause for these problems, and there are many overlapping problems.
Therefore, this problem cannot be solved unless we clarify and solve the overlapping problems one by one.
So I'm going to unravel that problem one by one.
That said, the cause varies from person to person, so it is difficult to find out the specific cause here, but first of all, there is something that everyone can say in common, and that is, "not enough words" It's hard.
Do you understand what this means?
As I have told you several times in my previous blog, there are overwhelmingly many people who use words to communicate, but we omit those words a lot and convey them to the other person.
Almost 90% of people are not aware of it.
And for some reason, it's troublesome.
It's a simple reason, isn't it?
However, I would like you to think back a little about yourself, but isn't it troublesome to say everything from beginning to end?
"You don't have to say it many times to understand, right?" Or, "You can communicate with this and that, right?" And there are times when you unconsciously feel it, such as "Why do I have to say from 1 to 10 every time" and can't help but omit it, right?
At that time, I misunderstand people.
Because I rely too much on words.
There are places where we don't seem to understand each other.
Well, the correction function of the brain is added to this, so it's not something you can do with your own consciousness alone.
So first of all, don't omit it as much as possible, don't use "that", "this" or "that" as much as possible, and there are many people who speak by omitting the subject, so be careful about that as well.
Why don't you try to communicate with this in mind?
If you do that, I think you can make up for the lack of communication.
After that, yes, it's also a good idea to add not only words, but also expressions and gestures.
Just like gestures, people can read what the other person wants to convey not only from words, but also from facial expressions and hand gestures.
Therefore, if you are not good at conveying in words, or if you can't make up for it with words, please try it.
In addition, you can write it on paper and tell the other person, or use a smartphone now.
If you are not good at speaking but good at writing, we also recommend this method.
Increasing the variety of words is also one of the techniques when communicating.
Did you say it would increase your vocabulary?
If you listen to the spoken language of various intellectuals, this will naturally come into your head.
I recommend it because it comes up a lot when I search on YouTube.
If you want to talk interestingly, watch the entertainer's YouTube.
Well, is it a place like this?
If you say too much, you will only get lost, so I'll leave it here, but after all, what kind of way is best for you, and it starts with finding it, so if you do it in a way that doesn't suit you, in the end, The method itself will be stressful, so it won't last long.
Therefore, instead of trying to solve it right away, I recommend that you look at it in the long run, carefully find a way that suits your method, and try it from there.
I'll say it again, please note that it won't be established unless it's the way that suits you.
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