My boss warns me, what should I do?
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"Let's ignore unreasonable attention, let's correct reasonable attention" is my answer.
That's because there are some precautions that poke the essence, so isn't it a bit of a waste to miss it?
Everyone is like that, but there are not a few places where you should fix your own shortcomings and weaknesses that you don't know, you can't be aware of, and that you can't find.
So, even among the cautions that were told, "That's not true!" Or, "Is there such a thing?" Or, "What are you saying?" If there is a place where you think about it, that is, it is better for the consultant to fix it.
More to the point, if you fix it, your human power will be further refined, and your ability will suddenly rise to the ceiling.
So, there may be a problem with the way you say it, but in such a case, why don't you take only the facts you were told, throw away the feelings of the boss who put you there in the trash, and let your stomach fall inside yourself?
By all means, people, due to their nature, when something happens, along with that fact, they tend to talk with the emotions they felt at that time.
Because it's more comfortable that way.
So, everyone, it's easy to misunderstand, but don't you think you were warned with an angry tone?
Then, the person who received it will be the first to say, "Damn, I got angry!" It's easy to take the feelings of anger as a priority.
I don't think about what was said.
For example, isn't there such a thing?
When I think about it later, I don't remember why I was scolded unexpectedly, but I was warned and angry because something was wrong, and I didn't you remember it by just close-up?
This is exactly the priority of emotions.
By the way, do you all know the law of Melabian?
I want you to google the details, but the point is, it is a law that shows the proportion of which sensory organs people use to receive information from others the most, but the most important thing is the appearance of the combination of vision and hearing, this It seems that it accounts for 90%.
So, what I want to say here is, I wonder how many people receive what others are saying and what they are talking about, but do you know this?
That percentage.
You'll be surprised when you hear it.
The percentage of us receiving what people say.
I'll tell you, the percentage is about 6%.
Less than 10%.
It's only about 6%.
Lower than the consumption tax.
Don't you feel like you're going to stop talking to others?
Because, even if you talk seriously, even if you talk hard to convey it, it's hardly affected, rather, isn't there a possibility that you haven't heard much?
I think this is also quite experienced, but for example, almost everyone hasn't heard about the principal's story at school events, right?
I can't say it in a loud voice, but maybe even the teachers.
In addition, the story of the boss at the company's morning meeting.
You haven't heard much about this either, have you?
Except for being specially related to me.
So, I'll go back to the story, but please put your emotions aside and listen to the contents and facts.
Then, I'm sure there's a big possibility that the consultant is talking about himself.
By the way, there are few people doing this.
People who receive emotions and facts separately...
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