If you don't take care of others, you won't be cared for yourself (continued from yesterday)
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Well, if I say this far, it sounds like a bad thing to care only about yourself, so I'll deny it a little, but sometimes and in some cases, the idea of taking care of yourself is also important.
People tend to think with dualism, but if you have that way of thinking, please take this opportunity to reconsider.
Binary theory is to think about whether there is or not, 0 or 100.
Is it okay?
Suppose, let's say you put others first and live.
What will happen if you do that?
You always think about yourself later, don't you?
It's different for people who love it and are always more helpful to others than their own.
But what happens if a person who is not like that gives priority to others is that his heart will always remain unfulfilled.
Even if you are hungry, always give food to others first.
Even if it's cold, I give the blanket to someone else.
Even if you want something, give it to someone else.
If you repeat this, your heart will always remain unsatisfied with your desires.
If your heart is not satisfied, you will be dissatisfied, and when you are dissatisfied, you will be frustrated, and the loop will continue, and if your heart is not satisfied, you will not be able to care about other people.
But because of its nature, I put others first.
If you repeat this, you will eventually get psychotic, right?
So, sometimes and in some cases, it is also necessary when you put yourself first.
So, just know that you are not completely denying your priorities.
Well, that said, I don't think it's a good idea to ignore other people too much.
First, there's no way people who can't take care of others can take care of themselves, right?
There are quite a lot of people who don't understand this principle.
People can be explained in various words, such as mirror neurons, mirror laws, spiritual waves, resonance in quantum mechanics, resonance, etc., but it seems that what you do will return to you as it is. I'm doing it.
You've all experienced this, haven't you?
If we laugh, the other person will laugh too.
If we get angry, the other person will also get angry.
If you cry, you will cry, and if you don't cry, you will feel sad.
That's what it's about.
In other words, if you don't take care of others, you won't be cared for yourself.
So, if you don't take care of yourself, but take care of others, you won't get kindness from others this time, or rather, you won't get your kindness from others back.
But I don't know if they have forgotten about it or don't know it, but there are many people who only want kindness from others.
Apart from the kindness you give.
But then, no matter how long it takes, you won't be able to get any kindness from others, so if you're worried about something similar like this, or if there's anyone who cares about it, try to pay a little bit about your own kindness and the kindness of others. Please try to do so.
Because you can experience that the world will change dramatically just by changing a little from yourself.
If you don't give up and continue.
That's the custom of this world.
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