I can't join the circle of mom friends, what should I do?
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If you can't join the circle of mom friends, you don't have to join, right? That's the answer.
There are quite a lot of people who have problems around there, but if you're not good at joining the circle, you don't have to force yourself to enter, right?
If you want to hear something related to school, you can ask the school, and if you want to hear about your child's problems, you can just join a community that specializes in children's education counseling, and nothing is possible among the closest mom friends. I don't think it's necessary to go in.
I think my cells are trying to prevent their DNA from approaching.
When I said that, it was a kind of spiritual story, "Eyebrow spit?" It is thought, but in fact, the same thing can be said in terms of quantum mechanics.
There is a particle that is the smallest component that makes up our body, and this particle is vibrating.
So, there are particles that vibrate in the same way that resonate with the vibration, and they are made to stick to them.
For example, if you think about each other, it's the case that they are compatible with each other.
Because the vibrations of each other's particles are similar, each other's particles resonate and are close to each other.
That's why it's comfortable, in other words, it's a good match.
That means, today's consultant, if you can easily enter the mom friends, it will be that the particles of each other resonate and attract each other, so even if you enter it, you can blend in naturally without overdoing it at all. I think so.
So much so that you don't have to worry.
But it's not like that, right?
You can't blend in, or you can't get into the circle in the first place, right?
This means that the vibration of the particles you have from the beginning and the vibration of the particles of the ring made by their mom friends do not match.
Moreover, people are animals that move with emotions, and most of the people around them make mom friends, and "I envy you" or "I want to be like that too" and "I think it's fun", and the synergy effect also works there. I'm doing it.
That's why I want to make a mom friend somewhere and feel at ease even on the spot.
People are extremely uncomfortable when they are anxious, and they are also likely to get sick, so it is normal as a physiological phenomenon that people have, but I dare say that even if you force yourself into the circle, if you think about the future, I think the maximum state of discomfort will come.
Because when you're overdoing it, you're already in an uncomfortable state, right?
I hope it's not impossible, but when you can't join the circle of mom friends, you know that you have to change something, right?
Then it's something, but this will be either yourself or the other party, right?
If that happens, doesn't it mean that you need to change?
Doesn't it mean that if you don't change something about yourself, you won't be able to enter that circle even after a lifetime?
Because you can't say it, can you?
"I want to join your circle, so please make sure I can get in well."
At the time when I can say this, I'm mentally the strongest, so I don't have to worry about this kind of trouble anymore, and I think I'm a person who can fit into any mom's circle.
It's like saying, "I don't want to change, so please change."
People who have problems like today can't say this, right? ...
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