If you are too bound by your own ideas, others will not understand

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "If you are too bound by your own ideas, others can't understand".

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Well, everyone.

What do you all think?

Have you ever thought about your own ideas?

Even so, you don't have to think about it for a while, do you?

What are your ideas, what are your beliefs, and what are your own thoughts?

You're busy.

It's natural that there are many people like that, really, it can be said that everyone in the world has in common, but really, everyone is busy... It's actually an assumption.

However, today, you came across my blog, and I would like you to give me just a little 5 minutes.

So, I'd like to dig a little deeper into that notion right away, but by the way, the assumption I told you earlier is actually the same as the notion in a broad sense.

I'll tell you that for now.

It may be persistent, but notions are like a kind of assumption, so to speak.

Because your assumptions are also stuck to your own ideas, right?

If you look into the meaning of the notion, you will write the same thing.

Shall we check the meaning for now?

When I googled, I found that notions were "thoughts about things".

It's a very easy-to-understand sentence.

It seems to be an idea of things.

Well, the word "assumption" contains the connotation of sticking to it or being obsessed, but if you think about it simply, both are similar in terms of thinking about things.

If anything, is it like a higher concept that goes a little higher?

Well, let's end the explanation of the words here, and today's main topic.

Today's main idea is that if you are too bound by that idea, you can't actually understand other people, and what I want to tell you the most.

I'm going to talk a little bit, but among the worries and problems that you usually have, there are always many worries about human relationships and interpersonal relationships.

So, why does this problem come up? I thought about it seriously, but I realized that the destination was today's theme itself.

When factored down, don't the problems of human relationships come from the difference in the way of thinking in the first place?

For example, there is Mr. A and Mr. B, Mr. A is an indoor person and Mr. B is an outdoor person.

Mr. A loves to spend time at home, but Mr. B loves to play outside.

Those two people, what happens when they play together?

If you go as it is, you will surely have a separate opinion and give up playing together, right?

One wants to stay inside the house, but the other wants to go outside.

Each of them has a reason why they want to do so, and they make that choice, so if you think about it normally, you can't give in to each other.

This means that you are too bound by your own ideas, but there are things you tend to do here, and you don't want to know other people's reasons.

In the end, everyone has the psychology or instinct that they are the best, so they don't think deeply about other people's reasons.

Of course, it depends on your personality.

There are people who think about others, and there are people who give priority to others at their own expense, so not everyone is like that, but people often think that at least 80% of people in the world think they are the best over others. I'm doing it.

It's not that it's bad.

However, if you want to improve your relationships, if you don't think about others a little, it will only get worse.

In other words, "This is what I think!" If you stick to that, you can't even think about other people and ask, "What do other people think?" It becomes quite difficult to switch to the head.

That's why there is a tendency to not be able to understand the other person.

For example, "I don't want to go out because it's a holiday! I want to hang around at home! Or, "I want to go out because it's a holiday! I want to go to various places to play! If you get a head that is biased towards one or the other, other people's thoughts will no longer enter your head, right?

That's why it's difficult to understand other people's thoughts, and in the end, it becomes a composition that worsens the relationship from there.

So, I'll summarize it simply in the end, but if you don't want to worry about human relationships, it was a story that said, "Please be careful".

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