If the result is the worst, the past events will also be the worst
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "If the result is the worst, past events will also be the worst".
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Well, everyone.
Have you all heard of it at least once or felt it?
Even if you are told, "Eh? What? As for today's theme, when the worst outcome occurs, if you look back on the past, "Ah! Maybe that was the cause!?︎" Thinking back, it is to pull out some events that are not very good for you from your memory.
There is, right?
Then why did you talk like this? This story and today's theme have the same principle.
It's just a slightly different wording.
This is because the structure of people's thinking is like this in the first place, and when people think about the cause of a bad event, they only look for events that have a bad impression of themselves from their memories.
In fact, I think there were some bad events, but before and after that or at the same time, it can be said that good events must have happened almost always.
But that good event is clean and refreshing, or rather, it is pushed to the depths of memory.
Because I'm focusing on bad events in my head.
The brain has a law of unity and consistency, and when you think about one thing, you have a habit of thinking similarly to that thought.
So even at this time, when something bad happens to me, I will look for only the events that were bad for me in my past memories.
In other words, the brain is starting to think with the keyword "bad thing" without permission.
How about this fact?
If you don't know, it's pretty troublesome, isn't it?
If you know, you can stop that thought as much as you want.
So, even if something bad happens to you, when you find out the cause, you can judge and analyze in a relatively calm and fair way that is not too biased towards bad things.
So, it's about what this way of thinking can be used for, but what I recommend is mainly Izakoza in human relationships.
Isn't there?
Later, "Actually, that was a mistake."
Have you ever regretted it?
Have you made a mistake and blamed others, or hurt others by saying something like an argument?
If you use this way of thinking, you can almost root up and prevent such relationship problems.
After all, there is no such thing as 100% that one of the trouble-related events is completely bad.
In the world of traffic accidents, if you rear-end a car from behind where the car was completely parked, the car that crashed in 10 to 0 is bad, but when you look at the incident in the first place, the crashed car It was an accident that would not have happened if I hadn't stopped there on time.
This is not a fart, it's a fact.
However, due to the rule of law in Japan, it is a rule that must be decided in black and white by law, so it is only decided which one is wrong, but when you look at the event itself from a bird's-eye perspective, it's fault that it's both sides. I can clearly see that.
In the first place, the composition of trouble is supposed to be established without yourself, someone else, and someone else.
In other words, if I say to the point that if there are no two people other than myself, there will be no bad and good things, there will be people who will be attracted a little, so I will quit around here, but that's also the truth. .
Well, let's go back to the crucial point, let's move on with the story, but if you want to be a fair judge and avoid trouble with unnecessary others when looking back on what happened to you, so if you want to avoid trouble with unnecessary strangers, you can only do bad events. Don't scum, try to make your brain remember the good events that should be happening before and after that together.
If you do that, the bad events will be alleviated a little, and you will feel that it is not just the fault of others.
I'm also thinking that I was a little wrong, so if I do that, I don't have to spend time on unnecessary izakoza, right?
Isn't it a great deal, as for how to spend time?
Therefore, if there are people who want to put it into practice even a little after hearing this story today, I strongly recommend that you take action right now.
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