If you are drawn to the previous story, the conversation will not mesh.

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "If you are drawn to the previous story, the conversation will not mesh."

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Well, everyone.

Have you all experienced something like this?

While talking to people, continue talking while being drawn to the previous story, and the next conversation will not mesh.

I think a lot of people have experienced this.

Because in order to solve this problem, you have to think about the mechanism of the brain first.

The brain has a law of unity and consistency, and it has the property of continuing to do what you have been doing until now even if the scene changes.

Because of this nature, the content you were talking about just before that will be affected by the subsequent conversation as it is, so you will be able to have a conversation while dragging, so if you don't listen to what the other person says properly, you will reply ast miss the target. What is it?

For example, do you like meat? Do you like fish? Let's say you've been talking about it for a long time.

If it's meat, do you like cows? Do you like chicken? Or, if it's a fish, do you like white meat? Do you like red meat? It's a long story that loin is good for meat, Harami is good, "loin is fatty" and "chicken is cheap".

Then, in the middle of such a conversation, the other person popped out, "Do you like meat?" Let's say you're asked.

But the person who was told that misunderstood what he thought and said, "That's right, I like hamburger steak." Let's say you answered the name of the dish.

Well, if you take it big, it's not a mistake, but most people think like this.

"That's the name of the dish... No, I asked if you like meat or not?" What?

This is the law of unity and consistency of the brain.

Until then, I was talking about the keyword meat, so all the people who entered the conversation and listened to the story firmly are meat in their heads.

But people who have not listened to the story or joined the conversation from the middle tend to start talking on their own axis, including image words derived from meat, not the head of meat.

So, in the end, if you don't listen to what people are saying, it will be such a hugging conversation.

If this gap continues, in the end, "I don't talk to this person" or "This person is different" or "I always talk to this person." That's why it's going to be like that.

So, by knowing the nature of such a brain well, you can also reduce hugging conversations.

However, first of all, listen carefully to what the other person is saying.

It's relatively easy, isn't it?

You just have to listen to the story.

Why don't you start here?

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