When someone says something you don't want to say, it's better to return thanks.

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Well, today, I will explain "When you say something you don't want to say, it's better to return gratitude".

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Well everyone.

How are you all doing?

How do you react when people say things you don't want them to say?

Do you give back a sullen face, or do you say, "I need your help," or even say, "I'm sorry, you idiot"?

I understand how you feel.

Maybe you know the people who retort like that and get frustrated.

I have to do something.

I know, but I can't fix it.

I can't fix it.

That's about it.

Well, today, instead of talking about how to fix it for such people, I will focus on those who say, "If you do this when you are told, you will benefit."

So first question.

Now, what is it that you don't want to be told?

I don't want to be told.

Please think about it.

Well, how do you like it?

Have you gathered your thoughts?

I think most people would probably answer in the same way, but that's probably my fault.

Shall we call it a drawback?

You know your flaws, but you can't fix them, but don't you get annoyed when people point them out?

That's right.
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What you don't want to be told is actually your flaws.​

So, should this drawback exist?

Or should I not?

The answer is also simple.

Better not.

However, to avoid misunderstandings, I would like to explain in more detail. Since it is impossible to make it completely zero in the first place, it would be more correct to say that it is close to zero here.

By the way, there are times when it's better to have shortcomings.

I'm a little sidetracked, so I'm going to go back to the beginning, but is it important to me, or is it unimportant, to point out this flaw that I shouldn't have?

It's easy too.

It's probably one of the few important people around me that tells me about my shortcomings, that is, what I should fix, or reminds me of things I've forgotten.

An important existence is a existence that we are thankful for just by being there, so we have no choice but to be grateful.

Finally, let's summarize.

The answer to what to do when someone says something you don't want to say.

It means returning words of thanks.​

I think it's frustrating when you're not used to it, but let's try to say "thank you for saying that" even if it's just words.

That will change your attitude.

In other words, if someone who has been verbally insulting all of a sudden suddenly stops saying so, or is thanked, you can feel relieved that you can say the truth to this person. It will give you a feeling of trust, and first of all, if you get used to saying thank you, your own heart will not be irritated.

Well, there is no doubt that it is originally your own fault, so even if you are irritated by pointing it out, the other person tends to perceive it as just an eight-shot.

So, after all, frustration doesn't give birth to good things.

That's why today I've explained about "When someone says something you don't want to say, it's better to return your gratitude".

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