What I told you is taken into a different meaning than the intention, what should I do?
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Well, this time, it means that the intention of what you conveyed was not well conveyed to the other party.
What should I do in this case? That's what I mean, but first, let's give up.
No matter how hard you try to tell them so that you don't get misunderstood, if it wasn't conveyed to the other person, that's that person's ability.
You don't have the ability to read the intention well, so if you want to convey your intention, you have to wait until you have the ability of the other person to grow, right?
For example, for a baby who can't walk yet, "Why don't you walk?" It's the same as thinking.
But this can't be helped, right?
Because I'm still a baby.
I don't have muscles, skeletons, and other things to walk.
I haven't grown until I can walk.
To people who do not yet have that ability, "Walk!" No matter what you say, it's useless, isn't it?
To those who can't do it, "Grate our intentions!" It's useless to say that, isn't it?
When I do that, I just get annoyed because they don't listen to me no matter how much I say.
If so, first of all, start by giving up on such people, saying, "Oh, this person is so capable."
Then, you will naturally lose the strength of your shoulders and relax.
When you relax, you can look at the other person calmly, so you can avoid denying the whole personality.
There are often people who start to deny the whole personality when they can't do one thing.
If you do this, you will never be able to do it.
If you do something that denies the whole personality, the relationship with that person is completely over.
If you don't see through the nature of the other person and evaluate that person as it is, the consultant will surely start mocking that person.
I mean, it may already be.
When that happens, this time, instead of relaxing, you will enter the opposite frustration mode.
Every time I meet that person, I get frustrated, and instead of gaining the upper hand, the sympathetic nerve has the upper hand, which becomes the so-called combat mode.
If that happens, you will only see your opponent as an enemy, so you will attack, make fun of him, make fun of him, and you will rant, and your mentality will be torn apart.
Naturally, the people around you who saw that figure would also pull back.
The consultant himself will surely regret it after spitting poison on the other person for a while.
If that happens, it will not only lead to the collapse of human relationships, but also the collapse of the consultant himself, so no matter how many times you say it, no matter how many times you explain it, no matter how many times you carefully explain the same thing and what you intend, if the other person does not understand, It is better to see it as such a person, a person with such a nature, to move forward.
You probably don't have time to stay on that problem forever, do you?
If you work in a team, you will get a lot of work after another.
If you interact with the other person every time, you will be tired of it from now on, right?
Then give up early and "give up" first.
I recommend this method.
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