A sense of self-affirmation will increase if you receive gifts from others honestly.
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "gifts from others, it's better to receive them honestly, and your sense of self-affirmation will increase."
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How about everyone?
Is it possible to receive gifts from others honestly?
This seems easy, but there are many people who are unexpectedly difficult, right?
There are many Japanese people who are especially modest, so there are many people who can't say anything about actively trying to get it, which seems mean and can't be said for a while.
But in fact, there are more things to gain from what you say "I'll give you this" comfortably and receive "thank you" honestly.
First of all, what do you think it's like when someone else feels good and gives something to someone?
I'm sure many people have a good impression of the person they give first, right?
Moreover, when someone has done something happy in the past or something to be grateful for, people give something to that person and try to express their gratitude.
In other words, when people give things to others, it often comes from gratitude from the past.
However, there are some people who give things out of cunning.
However, today, I will put aside the people who said so for a while and dig deep into the majority of people.
Let's talk back.
That is, if you don't return the gratitude of the past properly now, what kind of feelings will the person who tried to give it feel?
I'm sure it will be something unpleasant, and it will still be unpleasant, right?
If that happens, where should I direct that feeling?
I got it, so I'll return it.
Wouldn't this make you feel calm and balance your power?
However, I received it, but I can't return it at all.
This state is a state of biased power, a very biased feeling, and an unbalanced state, right?
If that happens, at some point, it will feel uncomfortable to be with that person, and you will become estranged.
To put it simply, it turns into a thought, "I'm sorry that I always get a gift from him, I can't accept a gift from me, and I wonder if I should stop dating anymore..."
This means that if you don't receive a gift that is sent comfortably, there is a high possibility that a deep rift will form between the two of you at some point.
Therefore, if you accept gifts and words of gratitude that the other person offers comfortably, it will create a comfortable feeling for the other party, and here you can get a gift and thank you. If you pass on that gratitude to someone else, this will be a pay forward, and then don't you think that your people around you will be overflowing with gratitude?
It's a good environment, and I'm surrounded by gratitude.
It also leads to an increase in self-affirmation from the thought of "I'm helping someone somewhere".
On the contrary, there are many people who do not receive gifts honestly, and there are many people who have a low sense of self-affirmation.
Someone who doesn't like you very much.
This is a basic way of thinking that ruins yourself, so if you're doing it, it's better to throw it away right now.
I'm sure you'll end up living a bad life, so please throw it away right now.
"Is it okay for me to receive something like this?" I'm just thinking that "I don't deserve to receive it", but I can't get that assumption, and I just don't feel like accepting gifts from others honestly.
But in fact, being sent a feeling of gratitude or being given a pleasant gift means that the other person has received some kind of encouragement, gratitude, and gratitude at least somewhere, so that feeling is no If you don't just be careful not to waste it, as I said before, it will destroy human relationships, and your sense of self-affirmation will also decrease, so please be careful.
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