It's better to say than not to say.

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Today, I will talk about "the way of thinking that it is better to say than not to say".

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

First of all, I would like to ask everyone.

Am I the type to say, "I won't say it even if I have an idea"?

Or is it the type of "I'll tell you for the time being"?

When you divide people into this type, they are roughly divided into these two types.

However, when I think only about Japanese people, I think that many Japanese people have cherished the culture of "Omonpakakaru" and 忖度 quite a lot, so in that sense, I feel that there are many people who say, "I won't say it even if I think of it." .

So is it really okay to say "I won't say it even if I think of it"?

That's the center of today's story.

Certainly, "I won't say it even if I think of it" is a smart thing for Japanese people, and there are aspects of manners, and if the quality is good, it seems like a virtue.

Moreover, from the perspective of overseas people, the high hospitality of Japanese people is highly evaluated.

But if you think about it from its shortcomings, if there is a gap between what the other person wants you want and what you do, this will come into a kind of "Don't do unnecessary things" or "Thank you for the inconvenience" next time.

In other words, if some people say it and get angry, I think it's better to leave it as it is without saying it, but if you get into that habit, you may not be able to say the important things even when you really have to say it.

Because people have a habit of unity and consistency.

This is a kind of defense function that has been in the brain since birth, but because of this habit, if we continue to do one thing, we will do it all the time, so to speak, a function that will be the source of habit will be activated.

So back to the story, if that habit works, in the end, "don't say" becomes a habit, and it causes a situation where you can't say what you really have to say at the right time.

If you think so, there is a possibility that it will lead to conflict by saying what you think, but don't you think it will end up a little unhappy for you if you can't say it?

It's the same with an atmosphere where you can't say anything and a poorly airy workplace, but I don't think it's good for you to be there.

So, I won't say let's change such an airy workplace right now, or let's say what I can think of immediately from tomorrow, but if you keep silent about what you think too much, it will eventually become a habit, and the important thing You won't be able to say the important things at some point.

It was said that if that happens, you will be unhappy or lose money.

So how was today's story?

Every day like this, we explain the characteristics and habits of people based on brain science, and the story that people with such a personality are easy to fall into such a tendency, and so that they can be used in daily life and work.

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