The gap with the appearance can attract the other person's interest.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the gap with the appearance can attract the other person's interest."

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Well, everyone.

Have you ever thought about the gap?

It's a gap, a gap.

First of all, let's easily check the meaning of the gap.

In other words, the gap is a side that is roughly unexpected.

Isn't it quite familiar when you hear it like this?

There are some of you, those who have an unexpected side, or those who have seen an unexpected side of people.

I think it's easier to look at other people's than your own.

But everyone has this, right?

Both the good side and the bad side.

So today, this gap, an unexpected side, is actually very useful for attracting the other person's interest.

Why don't you ask about love or something?

Something like, "That gap is good, isn't it?"

That's exactly it.

When that gap is in the middle of the other person's values, the switch of interest is turned on.

If that happens, the rest will be relatively easy, and if you don't do something that won't be disliked, you will be able to create a reasonably stable and good relationship.

The first thing that is a little difficult is to "show the gap that is addicted to the other person's values".

Each person is different here, so it's hard to narrow it down to one today and say "it's like this", but if I were to tell the point, it would be to observe the other person and gather information.

I think there are many people who think this is natural, but it's natural.

Knowing the other person's preferences and unpleasant things is a shortcut to get along the most, isn't it?

But if it's too one-sided, you'll just become a stalker, and it's really a good thing to be moderate and know the other person's preferences.

You can ask the person directly, you can ask via an acquaintance, you can listen to it in a natural way, and there are many ways to get information.

That's how you know the other person's values, and then you make a temperature difference between those values and your appearance.

At first glance, a person who looks like a delinquent is actually picking up a puppy and being kind, or on the contrary, a child with a neat feeling was actually a young lady's temperament.

It's like this.

Oh, and this time, "Let's make use of the appearance!" I recommended it because people look 90%.

In other words, it is the best tool to make an impression on the other party.

However, if you fail, it's easy to be negative, but with that person, "I want to get along with you no matter what!" If you think so, there's no reason not to use this psychological technique, right?

So, "I want to get along with this person!" If there are people who say so, please try this method I talked about this time in a practical place.

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