A miserable end waiting for someone who destroys other people's dreams
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Well, today, I will talk about "the tragic end of waiting for those who destroy other people's dreams".
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Well, everyone.
Isn't there anyone around you?
A person who easily destroys other people's dreams, hopes, and goals.
If you have no idea this, please look for it once.
Around you.
Actually, there are a certain number of these, so it's always there.
First of all, the representative ones are my parents.
Also, people who are married or dating are their partners or school teachers.
After all, these people are a race that can't help destroying other people's dreams.
In the first place, if you are worried about others, support them, or if you want to help that person, if there is something that person wants to do, what he wants to do, what he wants to do, what he wants to pursue as a dream, I think it's more important to push you with all your strength.
Because the possibilities of people are infinite.
Many people usually listen to the opinions of about 3 to 4 people around them, and they decide whether to judge things, whether to have or not, whether to go to the right or to the left.
The point is that the people who listen to their advice and opinions are very limited.
Moreover, they are people who don't know how to make their dreams come true.
In other words, many people who have never done it and people who have never achieved their dreams or goals have become a system to listen to advice as a matter of course.
Moreover, since the person who always listens to the opinion is the same, only the same conclusion can be reached.
That means, if there are many people around you who can only say that this dream crusher will destroy your dream, you will inevitably be forced to give up your dream.
Because, if you consult with 3 to 4 people who are usually close to you and are opposed to both of them, as expected, "I guess I can't do it!?︎" Don't you think so?
"There's too much risk, right?" I mean.
When the school teacher, my parents, and my best friend say, "You can't do it, don't do it," and at the same time, you say, "That's right, it's impossible after all," and as long as you're not prepared, "That's right," he said, "After all, everyone As you say, it's better to go on a safe road," which causes a bias of thinking.
Moreover, those 3 to 4 people are usually representative people who have a great influence on their lives.
This is what is said to be the cause of the status quo bias, or it is also said to be the suggestive effect by lobists.
It also exists in the adult world, the company world, and the political world, so on, this implied effect by the lobbiist.
But please think about it carefully.
Isn't that dream or goal something that hasn't started yet?
It's from now on, right?
Are you worried about the fact that nothing has started yet, and you're destroying your own potential?
It's what you wanted to do, right?
That dream and goal.
Then, instead of listening to others who have never done or challenged, why don't you believe in yourself and challenge yourself?
Even parents, school teachers, and smart friends often make mistakes.
People who break other people's dreams, people who stop, stop that dream for anyone.
But after that, it often comes out after succeeding that dream and says lightly, "I believed in it."
"I believed you could do it."
"Eh? What did I say at that time?" " Don't you remember?" I can't help but want to tsukkomi.
Well, people who destroy other people's dreams like this are troublesome creatures for people who act with dreams, goals, and purposes.
So, I'm starting to complain again today, so I'll get to today's conclusion around here.
You've already noticed "the tragic end waiting for someone who destroys other people's dreams", right?
That's right, it means that there is a possibility that people who have dreams will hate you fiercely.
This is the opposite, "That's good, it's the best, that dream!" Or, "You can do it, you can do it!" Or, "No, you should definitely do it!" What would happen if there were only people around you who supported you?
I'm sure you'll only feel like that, right?
"I might be able to do it myself" is that kind of worry, isn't it?
You tend to think of your successful self without thinking too much about failure, don't you?
From the realist, "That's a delusion!" "It's just an image!" You might be told that.
But, I think life is good like that.
You can't have a life that can live richly enough to have a dream of something and challenge it, right?
Some doctor wrote in some book that when he takes care of his own patient, he always comes out at the end, and everyone has a common regret.
I'm a doctor somewhere, and at the time of some book, I feel a little smelly, but I can't remember it at all.
If you are interested, please google it.
Well, back to the story, in the end, what many people regret in the end is, "I wish I had tried more things."
In other words, I'm satisfied with the life I have now, and I don't have the courage to challenge until I destroy it, I lived a stable life for decades, and I may have had a dream, but there are many people who lived conservatively without challenging anything. It's a thing, right?
When you hear something like this, don't you want to enjoy your life to the fullest, with all your strength, to your heart's content?
In the middle of your life, you don't feel like you're living in the middle of your life, do you?
By the way, I'm almost 50 years old.
It's time to enter the second half of my life.
It may be possible to live with a stability orientation as it is, but it's quite hard for every day to progress indifferently without any events in particular.
For the dream killers I talked about earlier, it may be safer for me not to move from my current position.
But I don't feel alive.
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