How to handle complaints that don't bother you (final episode)

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Well, today, I will continue from yesterday, and I will talk about "How to handle complaints without anxiety (the final episode)".

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

I mentioned it earlier, but at worst, whoever it is, I will be sacrificed by one person and blame it on that person.

This is all.

The two of us argue about the unspeakable points of that person, compete with each other, and sympathize with each other, and only then will we have a relationship.

If you do that, all the complaints that are said will not be said to the person who responded, but to the common enemy.

In this case, it will be a composition that is dissatisfied with someone else, not yourself, so it's almost no damage to your heart.

In this way, I will make a common enemy and let you say all the dissatisfaction of the other party while sympathizing with the other party.

If you do that, it will be relatively refreshing, so I feel like I'm going home.

Is it okay?

I'll say it again because it's important.

The way to handle complaints that don't bother you is to get rid of the assumption that the complaint is being said to you and think that you are saying it to someone else.

Actually, there are a lot of things that have nothing to do with me.

To put it simply, the point is to do other people's affairs.

When you talk about yourself, everyone gets a lot in their hearts.

But if it's something that others are telling me, I can stay calm.

There's something that doesn't ring a bell, right?

Of course, I understand that not everyone is like that.

But if you carry other people's complaints too much and you are too worried, you can use this psychological effect quite a lot.

If you can use this properly, your heart will be lighter about 80% to 90%.

So if you are interested, I recommend that you keep practicing until you can do it.

So how was it?

The last episode.

I think it was quite difficult to read by dividing it into 3 parts, but thank you for staying with me until the end.

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Well, every day like this, I blog about various things such as how to relieve stress, how to calm the other person's anger smoothly, and how to control my anger.

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