When you find the other person's unpleasant place, you can only see the unpleasant place.

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "When you find the other person's unpleasant place, you can only see the unpleasant place."

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Well, everyone.

Have you all experienced it?

Once you can see a person's unpleasant place, you can only see that person's unpleasant place from then on.

Don't you think this is strange?

Until then, there should have been good places.

You should have seen a kind place, a place where you can care, a place where you can be kind.

However, there is only a part of it that is greatly different from my values, and I just can't forgive it.

When I see such a place, suddenly the person's bad place is close-up and jumps into my eyes.

Have you ever experienced something like this?

This is not a brain abnormality or disease, usually.

When this condition occurs, the brain is more likely to be working normally.

Because it is proof that the "Law of Uniformity and Consistency of the Brain" that is familiar every time on my blog is working.

In other words, once you find a shocking unpleasant place, a place that you can't forgive, the law of unity and consistency of the brain works, and only unpleasant places will jump into the brain as information.

That's why even people you like can suddenly get cold, right?

It's said that a hundred years of love will cool down at once.

That's what happens.

Then, if you know this law, you can think of a way to deal with it, right?

If you find a place you don't like, only a place you don't like jump in as information, you can just take the other hand.

In other words, if you find a good place, nature and the good place of that person will jump into your brain as information.

If you do that, the other person's good points will be close up, so you can expect that the person himself to look like a good person, and if it goes well, you can control the person's favorability and raise it within yourself.

If that happens, it will be a chance to regain the relationship with that person you couldn't forgive, and you can use it a lot when you build new relationships from now on.

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