I have a different way of thinking, what should I do? ( Continuation of yesterday)
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So even if it takes time, start by trying to win the credibility of the other person.
So, when I gain the trust of the other party, I will convey my thoughts this time.
That way, rather than suddenly conveying your thoughts from the beginning, the other person will be able to listen to your thoughts and understand the story properly.
I repeat, people are able to listen to the stories of people they can trust.
Therefore, this method is the best for the type of people who stubbornly accept people's ideas even if it takes time.
However, if you still don't want to accept it, it means that you were a person who couldn't understand each other, so I think you should give up on the way you thinking of thinking with that person and choose a way of life that doesn't match.
It simply means that you didn't have a relationship with that person.
Moreover, if you decide from the beginning that you don't match your ideas, you will naturally think of some options for not matching.
The brain is made like that.
So all that's left is to do it one by one.
Depending on your personality, you may have a conflict with the other person, but that can't be helped.
There are people in the world who are incompatible, so there are no people who can be accepted by everyone.
So at that time, I think it's good to choose a method that you think is comfortable with and do it.
Well, next, for the type of people who show a certain understanding, but still believe that their ideas are correct.
For this type of person, well, I don't think it will take longer to rub the way of thinking than the first type of person, but when you still believe that your idea is right, you can throw away that assumption. Is quite troublesome.
However, the only salvation is that you can understand a certain amount of our way of thinking.
Therefore, I think it would be good to deepen the relationship by continuing to talk about the points that are understood as common points between the two people.
Speaking of a move that can be hit immediately, is this the first one?
Eventually, credibility will accumulate, and if you talk with enthusiasm, you will lose to that enthusiasm, and maybe you will give up your way of thinking, and if you persistently say the same thing over and over again, you may be hinted in time, and if you are too persistent The other party may lose, and just like the first type, it can be a way to convey your way of thinking after gaining credibility, and there are endless ways to do it.
You can proceed with the discussion while looking for each other's compromise from the beginning, and it's also a good idea to suddenly make a majority decision from the beginning, if there are a lot of people around you and members, and you want to narrow down your way of thinking.
It's good to see the results of the AB test introduced earlier, such as choosing a good one to present to a third party.
Well, after all, it takes a lot of time to think with other people.
Unless you choose to "unconditionally accept" the other person's way of thinking.
Well, it's the last one.
Finally, he is a strong criminal.
This is completely out, so withdraw from that person as soon as possible.
The more you date, the more you will be unhappy, so I recommend that you leave that person right now.
At work, it is necessary to try not to meet that person as much as possible, such as making a transfer request or quitting a job.
That's why I'm not worth dealing with.
It's better for you not to think about revenge.
There is even a saying that running away wins, so there are good escapes and bad escapes in an escape posture.
In this case, it is a good escape, so please make the best choice that suits your current consultant.
In the unlikely event that you deal with him, it will be a revenge until one of them is defeated, and when you lose, it will only create a new grudge, in general.
Moreover, some people who defeated will regret it when they think about it later, "Why did you do such a terrible thing?" And so on.
That's why it's not revenge.
So at the end, it was a bit like a sermon, but how was it in total?
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