It's easy to be misunderstood, what should I do?
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First of all, I'll check, but it's easy to be misunderstood, right?
This means that if you take it honestly, the consultant himself has done something to the people at work that will be misunderstood.
Can you understand this?
If you look at this from a bird's eye view, you'll understand it quite well.
I'm sorry if the way you say it is a little too direct and I'm offended.
But to be honest, this is an undeniable fact.
So first of all, it would be better to start by accepting and accepting this fact honestly.
At that point, at least 20% of people probably left this blog.
That's the nature of people.
This is such a human nature, so I can't do anything about it with my hands or other people's hands, so for the time being, those who have left will continue to talk as it is.
In the future, if there is a relationship, I think we will be able to meet those who left at that time.
Now, let's go back to the answer.
So, first of all, if you go with the right attack method, if you don't want to worry about the same problem for a long time, it's definitely better to do the work of admitting from knowing yourself that you don't know.
This work of knowing yourself that you don't know has its own nouns in various fields, but here, let's call it introspect.
Recently, I've been using the word introspecty a lot.
So, if you can freely do this introspect, you can know a lot about yourself that you don't know.
To put it simply, you can know a side of yourself that you don't know, or that you can know a personality that you have not been aware of before, you know yourself and yourself that you don't know, if you know this far, what kind of person you are, the overall picture is You're getting to know it deeply.
Being able to know deeply means that you can have a lot of your own strategy, how to use it, and how to defend.
For example, if you realize that you are losing your life with an angry personality much more than you think, you can take it so as not to get angry, and if you think that you are always losing money because of introversion, study how to be active and do it You can practice it, and you are losing money by saving too much, losing money by spending too much money, losing money by directing people too much, losing money by working too much for others, etc.
The rest requires a little effort, but if that effort comes to fruition, all the losses I just mentioned can be resolved.
As an aside, I can also say the opposite.
By introspecting, you can also know your strong points.
In other words, it is a point that is a little better than others, or tremendous, anyway, it is a point that is better than others.
To put it simply, someone else said, "Hey, can you tell me this?" Or, "〇〇-san is amazing!" It's where they say that, both in real life and on the Internet.
Once you understand this strong point, you can now know what your strong weapon is, so you can use it in various ways.
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Now, let's get back to the main topic.
So, if someone at work says something that will be misunderstood in the future, please ask them what you misunderstood.
If you do that, the other person will give you the answer.
That way, the rest is easy.
This time, we will receive the answer we received honestly, improve it honestly, and train again and again so that we can continue to do what the consultant has improved in real life.
Even if you try to change suddenly, it is difficult due to the nature of a person, so I don't recommend changing suddenly, some people can do it, but it's because it's because of that person, so there's no need to imitate that.
Therefore, please find a way that you feel comfortable for the consultant, a way that you can continue to do, and continue training for your words and actions that are easy to be misunderstood until it becomes difficult to do.
If you do that, you will complete one more self-improvement.
I feel like my human power has risen to the next level.
Therefore, I recommend that you read today's blog until you fall into the hara and put it into practice in the real life of the consultant.
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Today's answer.
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