A miserable end that waits for a person who immediately contradicts what he said
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Well, everyone.
Aren't you around you?
A person who immediately contradicts what he said.
Even so, don't you really know what you mean?
Rather, "Eh? Is there such a person? What, is there a momentum that seems to be heard back?
Because he is the kind of person who immediately does something contradictory to what he says.
"Is there really such a person?" I feel suspicious, but this is actually there.
Moreover, please observe the people around you often.
It's not just one or two people, it's quite good.
For example, I don't really want to criticize politics, but I'm a legislator who goes to the election while saying that I won't increase taxes, and as soon as I'm elected, I turn to the tax increase faction.
What? That's just an excuse to win! That's it.
I think so after all.
In addition, I often see people in the field of psychology who try to change others while saying that they can't change others.
This is also a good thing in the world of coaching.
It's like a school teacher or a company boss.
It's contradictory, isn't it?
Others can't change.
Let alone for adults, if you try to change it, you will be very resistant.
Well, the children are also around there.
But what kind of emotions do you think arise when you are resisted?
Resisting is a sign of saying you don't like it, right?
In general.
In other words, it is easy to create negative emotions that you don't like, so if you continue to change, your negative emotions will become stronger and stronger, and you will hate that person more and more.
This is the beginning of doing something contradictory.
If I hadn't done something contradictory, I wouldn't have been hated, and I might have been able to maintain a stable relationship at least.
So, today's conclusion has almost come out, but I'll summarize it again.
"A miserable end to wait for a person who immediately contradicts what he said" is like that.
In the end, it is "hated".
Even so, before that, I think you will step on the stage of being appalled, ridiculed, or not being dealt with by everyone.
What?
All of them are hard.
You don't want to do that if possible, do you?
Even if you get out of the community you belong to and join another community, don't you feel that if you don't review your shortcomings, you will end up the same wherever you go?
Then let's fix it now.
I hope you can make corrections from now on, become yourself who can live more comfortably, and enjoy your life in the future.
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