The fastest way to get along with people you meet only once.
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Today I'm going to talk about the fastest way to get along with people you meet only once.
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Well everyone.
Are you among you?
Someone who meets only once.
for example,
Every six months or every year.
Today like that
Sometimes show "I'll meet once and meet again in a while"
Because we have the best communication skills
I will tell you that.
First of all
It is necessary to break down the idea of "getting along".
If you keep disassembling "getting along", what kind of state will you end up with?
It is
It shows that the good impression and the good impression are attracted to each other.
for example,
Suppose you are and the other person is.
I want to get along with that person, so
At that point, I already have a good impression on the other party.
However,
When there is a sleight of hand
Even if you have a bad impression, you may have to get closer, so
It is not exhaustive.
Here, I will proceed assuming a proper situation.
What about the other person next?
I have to have a good impression of myself as well
You can't get close, right?
in short,
As a result of attracting one's good impression and the other's good impression
The phenomenon happens when you get along well.
That means
How can you get this good impression?
You just have to think about that.
There are two ways to do this.
One is to show your specs high and then occasionally show a crappy place.
The other is
From the beginning, I showed a little bit of a stupid place,
It is a way to decide only the important points.
So which method suits today's theme?
That is the second one.
Because
If you meet in a single shot, you will be a little nervous when you meet.
that's why
Instead of overestimating yourself from the beginning
Show me a little bad self
It relieves tension.
However,
If you show only bad places
It ’s just a bad guy, so
Please show me where you can do it properly at the important points.
Then
Because there is a gap between the bad places and the good places,
Thanks to that gap
First of all, your liking is rising.
Moreover,
Since I'm showing a lot of bad places from the beginning,
The other person has a sense of superiority.
I felt like "Oh, this person is merciless" ...
When you feel superiority
People generally feel better.
In other words, this sense of superiority
It is a detonator that promotes a favorable impression.
It feels like a chasing gap.
So today's conclusion.
The fastest way to get along with people you meet only once is
It means "use the sense of superiority".
Although,
Just showing what you can and can't do will not reduce your liking.
It's okay if it still takes time,
When there are few opportunities to meet
If you want to get along with the other person as soon as possible, use a sense of superiority
It was a story that you can explode the favorability of the other party.
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