How to apologize without making the other person angry.
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Do you all have it too?
One or two ways to apologize without making the other person angry.
Because I think that if you have one or two of these, or three if you want, you will be able to spend your life much easier in the future.
First of all, apologizing, isn't it hard?
Even if it's natural to apologize when you do something wrong, even if you have something unreasonable, you have to apologize, and there are times when you can't control it if you don't break, right?
That's the time, if you're going to apologize anyway, it's much better to apologize in a way that doesn't make the other person angry.
Because first of all, when people get angry, they don't listen to what the other person says anymore.
No matter what I say, I can't hear it at all, and there's blood on my head, so I'm desperate to beat the opponent.
No matter how much you hit the right argument against such a person, it is almost meaningless, and rather, it may return the right argument and pour oil on the fire.
So, what should I do at a time like this is to "apologizing with enthusiasm".
At the time of putting in the amount of heat, the other party may be unexpectedly flinched.
A somewhat powerful voice, a loud voice, and a face that looks as sorry as possible, and on top of that, I put my hands together to take a sorry pose and make a gesture.
If you go this far, you will be unexpectedly defeated by the momentum, and what you were angry until then may cool down at once.
How have you experienced something like this?
When you see a person who gets excited at a drinking party, or when you're the one who suffered damage, but don't you suddenly pull back the moment you see them, such as the words and actions of friends who are angry like yourself?
As a composition, there is a place close to this.
When you see people who are more enthusiastic than you, unexpected people can immediately return to calmly.
"Well, well, well" is the opposite of the role of calming down.
I'll summarize it.
In other words, "how to apologize without making the other person angry" means that you apologize with more enthusiasm than the other person.
If you don't get used to doing this, you will be quite embarrassed, so it seems like a high hurdle, but if you do it once, you will understand the response, and you will get used to it while doing it twice or three times.
However, if possible, I would like to make sure that I don't apologize twice or three times, but when I can't help it, I strongly recommend that you keep it as a hidden ball at this time.
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